Oprah Winfrey-- “If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.”
Suggested Affirmation: “I attract the ideal man/woman in my life by letting go of the men/women that are not right for me.”
Suggested Inquiry: How can I change who I am being so that I no longer attract the wrong man for me, and attract the right man?
Suggested Action: Make a detailed list of your ideal man--Physically, emotionally, spiritually, values, convictions, etc.
Oprah Winfrey—“Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.”
Suggested Affirmation: “I am the best me there is and I have no need to change who I am for any man/woman.”
Suggested Inquiry: Inquire into the statement that finding the man/woman who loves me exactly the way I am is my best chance to have a successful long-term committed relationship.
Suggested Action: Get out of a relationship that doesn’t work.
LIFE AND LIVING
Oprah Winfrey-- "The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate."
Suggested Affirmation: “I praise God for my life and I celebrate it.”
Suggested Inquiry: What are new ways in which I can praise God?
Suggested Action: Write down an aspect of your life that you are grateful for.
Oprah Winfrey-- "The whole point of being alive is to evolve into the complete person you were intended to be."
Suggested Affirmation: “I am evolving into the person I am intended to be.”
Suggested Inquiry: What is your purpose?
Suggested Action: Do something that evolves you.
Oprah Winfrey-- "Whatever you fear most has no power--it is your fear that has the power."
Suggested Affirmation: “What I fear has no power.”
Suggested Inquiry: What action can I take to overcome fear?
Suggested Action: Do one small thing that you are afraid to do.
May you have outstanding relationships with men
(c) Tuchy Palmieri 2009