The way we look at things can change our understanding of what we see. How then can we know what more there is to learn from something within our current perspective?
To do this we must accept what we see and what ever changes it makes throughout time. Our perception of love and life is no different.
To love we must not just say the words of love, but change with its changes, just as a man in sorrow cannot say he accepts a tragedy in order to be able to live with it. He must face his demons each and every day, accepting what he cannot change.
And each day of accepting life's changing joy or pain, you become who and what you were meant to become, which is the brightest star.