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Akande is an aspiring pediatric neurologist.He writes fiction as well as inspirational thoughts


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POWER OF IMAGINATION
by Akande Olayemmy David on Sunday, March 6, 2011 at 2:46pm
What is Imagination? Imagination is the formation of a mental image of something that is not perceived as real and is not present to the senses.
Another author describes imagination as the ability of forming mental images and sensations in a moment when they are not perceived,through sight,hearing or other senses.
Imagination comes from the latin word "imaginari" meaning to picture oneself.
But i define Imagination as the ability to conceive(think about) a concept solely within the mind,and not by observation or interaction with anything physical.
Imagination is the work of the mind that helps create. It helps provide meaning to experience and understanding to knowledge; it is a fundamental facility through which people make sense of the world.
When we talk about the power of Imagination, we're simply refering to THE FUTURE YOU SEE IN THE PICTURE OF YOUR MIND THAT YOU CAN FEATURE IN. Its about the mind before the brain solve the puzzle! We're talking about a factory of production and re-production.
John Locke puts it this way: "The actions of men are the best interpreters of their thoughts". You need to explore the mind because what you can not see in your mind can't be seen in your hand.

NEVER!!!
by Akande Olayemmy David on Sunday, June 13, 2010 at 9:11pm
Never laugh @ a childs lofty dream. To do so is to laugh @ ur own future.Every child constitutes ur future.

Never predict a child's destiny by his/her physical outlook or academic performance.Academic brilliance doesn't guarantee financial success or a blissful future.

Never compare a child with his/her peers.Though all children are equally human,they are not equally gifted.

Never treat a child with contempt. These tiny hands that can hardly hold a spoon today will one day help to build this nation or destroy its reputation.

Never deprive your child the best of education particularly in this century of knowledge. To do so is to deliberately sentence your grand and great grand children to a life of abject poverty and slavery to their peers.

Never short change your child's teacher. To short change him/her by 10Naira today is to short change your posterity by 100,000Naira tomorrow.
FACT
by Akande Olayemmy David on Tuesday, January 4, 2011 at 1:42am
No person is worth the pain and as someone recently said,you don't hold on to someone that doesn't want to be held onto. The thing about falling in luv is that if you do it right you will never hit the ground. Life is too short to be anything,so,kiss slowly,love deeply,forgive quickly,take chances and never have regrets,forget the past but remember what it taught you. sometimes you just have to smile and pretend everything is okay and hold back tears and walk away. If you want to see the rainbow,you must go through the rain,if you want true love you must go through the pain. Women were made from a man's rib,not from his head to be superior,not from his feet to be walked on but from his side to be equal,from under his arm to be protected and from next to the heart to be loved.
10 WAYS TO BECOME A MORE ATTRACTIVE MAN!
by Akande Olayemmy David on Friday, December 3, 2010 at 10:26am

Most men want to have more or better women in their lives. However, they don’t know how to make it happen. Some think it’s about getting more money……….. that’s  wrong!  Others think it’s about wearing the sharpest clothes……… wrong again! The most powerful attractor of women is how you are when you are with them. Check out these 10 ways to become a more attractive man! Start with number 10………

 

10. Learn how to tell an interesting story about anything: A key aspect to becoming a more attractive man is being able to tell an interesting story about anything. Interesting stories are like operas and myths; they have common pattern and a structure you can learn. One of the elements of an interesting story is a protagonist, the good guy. This works especially well if you make him the underdog who comes back after getting knocked down. Some other elements are conflicts, tension, tragedy, and humor. And there are usually characters that are very different from one another, and who have unpredictable interactions that lead to situations you would have never thought of. Learn how to tell a killer story and women will love you for it!

9. Learn Cocky Comedy: One of the most powerful attraction-boosting talents you can develop is something I call “Cocky Comedy”. It’s about combining cockiness or arrogance with humour. It’s being sassy. It’s saying things that make her jaw drop and making her say “I can’t believe you just said that,” and then hitting you in a playful way. If you want some models of Cocky Comedy, watch the likes of Bill Cosby or George Carlin. These guys always have a thing to say, and as you’re thinking “You’re silly for saying that,” you’re laughing.

Remember: too much Cocky and come across as insecure. Too much Funny and you’ll come across as goofy. How do you know if it’s working? She’s laughing!

 

8. Make friends with attractive women by becoming a man who women like being around: One of the best things you can do for your success with women and dating is to make friends………… just friends, with several women who are like the women you’d like to date. Why? Because having these types of women as friends will teach you how to interact with women like them, they’ll teach you everything you need to know. And best of all, they’ll bring the women to you!

 

7. Tease in every way: What does teasing mean? Some people think it means “take the living piss out of her and make her feel as small as ant.” I don’t mean that. You want to tease psychologically, emotionally, and physically, in a way that builds positive responses. If you tease a woman in a cocky and funny way, it starts some fun banter, and that’s a good thing.

If you tease a woman by putting your hand on top of hers and touch her hand gently, and she says “that’s nice,” then you take it away. Then every time she says she likes something you stop it……….you’re teasing her, its non-predictable. When you do something then take it away, you build anticipation with women, the more success you’ll have!

 

6. Learn the entire mating process of humans in details: We humans have a predictable set of steps that we go through in mating. From first contact to sex, it’s a predictable process. If you ask women what these steps are, they’ll tell you (you can actually learn a lot from this). If you ask men, they don’t know. Take the time to learn what the steps are, and how to move from one step to the next, and you’ll have more success than if you don’t!

 

5. Learn how to read situations before acting or communicating: Women have much more fine-tuned senses and perceptions when it comes to seeing social dynamics and what’s happening between people………. who’s in control,, who likes who, who doesn’t have a chance in hell, etc. However, it’s a skill guys can learn too. If you learn how to read situations and group dynamics, you’ll be able to create results that are nothing short of miraculous

4. Be honest, ethical and authentic with women always: I know a man who uses the idea of being “authentic” to an extreme, and he gets extreme results. He’ll be looking at a woman’s body, just enjoying it un-self-consciously then the woman will turn and ask him what he’s looking at, and he’ll casually say: “Wait, I’m not done yet.” Most men act in a way that shows that they’re ashamed about their desires. But when you act directly, it gives you great power. Extreme? Yes . Effective and fun? Double yes!

 

3. Set a boundary as soon as possible: If a woman does something that’s unacceptable, set a boundary immediately. Let’s say you’re at a bar, and a woman you’re talking to says: “Hey, keep talking to me because there’s this guy I was talking to just to get a drink, but now he’s following me around.” Tell her that’s not cool, it’s not cool to use you. Let her know you respect yourself as an individual and that you don’t accept behaviour or people who are below your standards!

 

2. Look past the “content” to see the true meaning of what’s going on: As I’ve studied male and female interaction, I’ve realized something , most of the words and gestures of communication are all distraction.

So when you’re interacting with a woman, always ask yourself, “what’s really going on here” For example, if a woman shows up all dramatic, instead of getting yourself caught up in the content, step back and realise it’s just a reflection of her personality. Then decide if that kind of woman is a good fit for  you or not!

 

1. Approaching a woman on a logical plane to turn her on is a losing game. Trying to use logic to become an interesting and attracting man just doesn’t work. It’s the old Russell Crowe sitting down at the bar in A Beautiful mind and saying; “In essence, we’re just talking about  luid exchange, so let’s skip all the small task and just hit it. “It doesn’t work that way. So how do you engage her emotions? You do things that are fun and adventurous. You tell stories that capture her heart and her mind. You learn how to touch a woman and what turns a woman on. Take the time to learn, and you’ll be rewarded with a lifetime of success with women!



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