When I began writing “When I Remember Love,” I had no idea of the meaning of tantric sex. However, when I later read about this method of lovemaking I was delightfully surprised to realize my characters were already ardently practicing it.
Tantric sex is all about brewing passion…to tempt, tease then thoroughly please. It involves the man having total control of his body, trying many positions with his partner, special breathing techniques, and holding back his climax as long as he can to give his lover the ultimate sexual pleasure experience. Some of these practices of course involve the woman’s efforts as well.
Jenna and Aidan are truly exceptional for a very young couple, in that they have the wisdom and passionate desire to bring each other pleasure, no matter the challenges they might face. They worship each other’s mind, body, heart and spirit. Their mutual, incredible love has carried them far beyond mere love making, into the glorious realm of tantric sex.
With love as their teacher, they have instinctively initiated the traditional components of the tantric sex philosophy into their lifestyle. Their love, trust and heartfelt desire to fulfill each other’s needs, and bring each other extreme pleasure, have together afforded them the opportunity to go far beyond mere genital pleasures, all the way to the realm of whole body orgasms not achieved by most couples, who instead simply settle for much less pleasure in their sex lives.
So Jenna and Aidan are not only remarkable in their consideration, respect and mutual love for one another, but as a natural result they have unknowingly incorporated the tantric sex experience into their lives, and thus have vastly enhanced their sexual pleasure.
Couples who have consciously studied and practiced tantric sex often claim that these ancient sexual techniques brought them much closer. They often make love for hours and hours, with ever more variety, spontaneity and passion, and their overall intimacy deepens considerably. Ovid: “In love there can be no haste.”
It’s true : As the sexual connection with your lover deepens you desire to have sex more frequently too, and therefore, the quality of your love lives greatly improves in more ways than one. The effects snowball, in the most beneficial possible ways.