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How Do You Remember?
1/20/2011 8:40:56 AM    [ Flag as Inappropriate ]

In general, when you look back upon your youth, do you remember the good things or the bad things? Do you see it with a nostalgic glow, or through a cracked, dark lens?

I remember my childhood more with the nostalgic glow than not. But when I read through the old journals I kept in high school, it seems I was so lonely all the time; at least that's what occupies so many of the entries. I wonder if the nostalgic-leaning memory is a defense mechanism to help us get through life. Maybe that's why some people who go through traumatic events black out parts of it. (Don't get me wrong - my childhood was thankfully lacking in trauma.)

Or maybe, in my case, as I look back it's with the perspective of the experiences I've gained as an adult. As an adult, I realize I had it pretty easy, so I'm no longer feeling sorry for myself like I may have been back then - therefor my memories have been colored with that perspective.

I wonder how people who really did experience constant trauma in their childhoods, but are now fairly well-adjusted adults, remember. Are their memories full of dread? Or have those traumatic memories been softened and redecorated with time?


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• Snowmapocalyptopalooza - Tuesday, February 01, 2011
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• When your parents are librarians... - Tuesday, January 18, 2011
• The genesis of a novel - the first 6 days - Tuesday, January 04, 2011
• Searching for Truth - Characterization - Thursday, December 16, 2010
• Control - and a little more about Northwoods Deep - Monday, December 13, 2010
• Bukowski - Wednesday, December 08, 2010
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• Tragedy - now with 50% more pathos! - Tuesday, November 09, 2010
• Perspective - Monday, November 08, 2010
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