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Blogs by Robert S Cosmar
Passing the Torch of Love
6/11/2011 2:19:22 AM
MAGIC OF LOVE AND INTIMACY
Love doesn't discriminate, judge or compare, only accepts all things unconditionally. Some of you may ask yourself how I feel about all this -- the journey Cathy is taking back into her past through her Memoirs From Nam blog, Vietnam, and the loss of Doug, her first real love. I'm going to tell you how I feel about it here in this blog. I hope for those of you who may be stuck in memories of past losses that you'll find hope, and realize that love never dies and it comes in many forms and many times.
When Cathy and I met again and we began to talk about our pasts, I knew her experience with losing Doug was a significant life experience and that her soul knew this as well. The deepest reasons for this I can't say, but I do know that when we have traumatic experiences, it's because our soul is trying to get us to look at unconscious patterns or things that prevent us from reuniting in awareness with different levels of ourselves. Most of us have our beliefs about the ultimate nature of existence and reality, but the truth is, we don't really know until awareness is brought through a shakeup of those beliefs.
When I asked Cathy to take me to Doug's grave, I knew it was the right thing to do. I don't know how I knew, but I did. My words poured honestly and sincerely from my heart as I talked to him there. I thanked Doug, after saying hello, and it felt like we were connected in some way. It felt like a cosmic channel between us had opened and we were talking in a meeting that seemed to have been prearranged in eternity past. It was a confirmation for me, that Cathy and I being together and the events around the reunion were all a part of a universal plan. I know she loves Doug and I'm sure, at times, she even wonders, "What if". On that day, I knew Doug still loved her and I also knew I was now to carry that torch, the one of love between Doug and Cathy, after so many years of hollow promises in other relationships.
I am not jealous because I know I'm in a partnership with existence to help Cathy realize all the love inside her. Doug and I are pieces in the puzzle of her life and integral parts of the great mystery of existence. Neither of us own her, but we both are privileged to receive her trust and love to help us heal. It is never just about two people. Life involves all of us and we can never know who we've touched or who may be touching us, or when.
I made a promise to Doug that day to love her in the way he would have intended, with the same caring and feelings he felt for her. It was like a form of telepathic communicating where I could feel his energy and sense this was a high intent of his. I realize that I cannot prove any of this to those of you who read this, it's just something that you have to feel and experience in your self. This was definitely not an everyday experience for us.
Love allows you to see the big picture of life and it goes well beyond the customs and beliefs of cultures and religions. What matters in life is what you feel about things. I feel that Doug, Vietnam and her loss of him is a part of the universe's plan for her growth in awareness. Her love is healing my issues and helping me to blossom more in my awareness.
Doug, wherever he may be now, realizes that the love he offered to her and shared with her was not in vain and it still continues through an agreement we three had together before this lifetime. Love is never about ownership, but an opportunity to experience greater awareness of both existence and spirit. Doug payed a price which I am sure has helped the three of us to become more aware of the nature of true reality and the deepest meaning of love -- a sacrifice for others.
I never knew Doug, because he was several years older than me. I do respect him. I respect what he did and how he touched my life and Cathy's and the three of us agree to do whatever it takes to help others to ascend in love and awareness towards the infinite mystery of life and existence.
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