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Blogs by Robert S Cosmar
The Circle of Love 7/5/2011 2:09:22 AM MAGIC OF LOVE AND INTIMACY When I have looked at all the successful relationships I have had, my friendships and my relationship with Cathy, these three words are at the essence of them: Trust, Respect, and Cooperation. It does not matter if you are in a love relationship, a friendship or a business partnership. These three words are MAGIC. They build on each other, compliment each other and drive each other into a lively interplay of energy that is creative, joyful and fun.
Trust is the beginning of any relationship. With it comes a faith that no matter how hard the times get, you will still succeed because something deep inside you compels you to see it through. Something says it will be worth it all. Still, to trust is to be vulnerable and with it, the possibility to be hurt. It is to risk abandonment and misunderstanding. It exposes your innocence, ignorance and gullibility. It tests you to see if you know and believe that everything happens for a purpose and reason and that the universe is always supporting a greater growth in awareness and love.
Respect follows on the heels of trust. It is seeing into the goodness of each other and it brings a deeper awareness that life has a plan and a purpose. You begin to work together and create together and bring out the very best in each other. You become aware of an inter-connectivity between each other and a synergy exists that is directed to a common objective. You begin to accept yourself more easily and believe in those talents and gifts you once thought were oddities. You find that you want to express yourself more earnestly and share those secret gifts and talents that you once thought meant nothing.
Nothing gets achieved with out cooperation. It is a selfless surrender to help another achieve a goal or plan without having to control or demand that everything has to be your way. People who trust and respect each other are in ONE agreement. They work in harmony and achieve because they help each other and feel the needs of the other are in some ways more important than theirs. They see that to help the other is to help themselves in the long run. It becomes a cycle of giving that spirals upward, lifting the spirits of both and allowing time for other things to be done. Cooperation feeds trust, trust feeds respect and respect leads to greater cooperation. It is a giant circle whose innermost essence is that word we call love.
The only things in life that are worth doing are those things we do for the common good of all.
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More Blogs by Robert S Cosmar The Mind does NOT forgive - Saturday, March 03, 2012 Global Guilt - Saturday, March 03, 2012 You only know what YOU know. - Saturday, March 03, 2012 A Person is not a Coward because they are Afraid - Saturday, March 03, 2012 Astrological Insights into Awareness - Sunday, July 10, 2011 The Highest Purpose of Astrology and further purpose of an Astrologer - Sunday, July 10, 2011 Why Astrology Works - Sunday, July 10, 2011 The Perfect Tool - Thursday, July 07, 2011 The Astrology of Awareness - Thursday, July 07, 2011 2011 and Astrology - Thursday, July 07, 2011 What is Love - Thursday, July 07, 2011 The Magic of Courage in Intimacy - Wednesday, July 06, 2011 The Path of Love II - Wednesday, July 06, 2011 The Intimacy of Caring - Wednesday, July 06, 2011 Discovering the Meaning of Life thru Partnership - Wednesday, July 06, 2011 The Path of Love - Tuesday, July 05, 2011 The Process of Pain in Love - Tuesday, July 05, 2011 The Circle of Love - Tuesday, July 05, 2011 Being in Love - Tuesday, July 05, 2011 Astrological Insight on Awareness in Relationship - Monday, July 04, 2011 Barriers to Intimacy - Monday, July 04, 2011 Acceptance - Monday, July 04, 2011 The Power of Devotion - Monday, July 04, 2011 Partnership with the Universe - Sunday, July 03, 2011 So Into You - Sunday, July 03, 2011 What good is Love, if it does not reveal More - Sunday, July 03, 2011 The Nobility of The Feminine - Sunday, July 03, 2011 The Gift of Inner Healing - Saturday, June 11, 2011 To Love a Woman - Saturday, June 11, 2011 The Gift of Love - Saturday, June 11, 2011 Passing the Torch of Love - Saturday, June 11, 2011 Almost, but not Quite! - Friday, June 10, 2011 Anger in Relationships - Friday, June 10, 2011 Enemies of Love - Friday, June 10, 2011 The Dangers of the Cyber Confessional - Friday, June 10, 2011 Trust, the Key to the Heart - Thursday, June 09, 2011 The World supports Creative Feeling or Vision - Wednesday, June 08, 2011 The Magic waits Patiently - Wednesday, June 08, 2011 Trust of Self - Wednesday, June 08, 2011 The Magic is YOUR life, fully lived - Wednesday, June 08, 2011 The Path. What Path? - Tuesday, June 07, 2011 Trust is a Must - Tuesday, June 07, 2011 Poetry or Prose - Tuesday, June 07, 2011 Realist vs Magician - Tuesday, June 07, 2011 What is a Dark Moment - Monday, June 06, 2011 Cycles of Living - Monday, June 06, 2011 Emptiness - Monday, June 06, 2011 Always Looking - Monday, June 06, 2011 Give or Take - Sunday, June 05, 2011 It is Our Fear - Sunday, June 05, 2011 There is No place like Home - Sunday, June 05, 2011 The less the Desire, the more aware you Aware - Sunday, June 05, 2011 Our One Desire - Saturday, June 04, 2011 The Wall - Saturday, June 04, 2011 The Chain of Magic - Saturday, June 04, 2011 Trust or Love, Which Comes First? - Saturday, June 04, 2011 The Search for Self - Thursday, June 02, 2011 Trust and Power - Thursday, June 02, 2011 The Poison of Pain - Thursday, June 02, 2011 Life After Death - Wednesday, June 01, 2011 We are the Universe - Wednesday, June 01, 2011 How to Access the Magic - Wednesday, June 01, 2011 A Message from Neuvelle, A Universal Being of Light - Monday, May 30, 2011 God or Universe, Which is it? - Sunday, May 29, 2011 Whispers of a Vision - Sunday, May 29, 2011 An Unexpected Vision of Love - Sunday, May 29, 2011 The Next Step - Sunday, May 29, 2011 Why - Saturday, May 28, 2011 The Universal Symbol of the Magic in Mankind - Saturday, May 28, 2011 Wishing the Darkness Away - Saturday, May 28, 2011 The Power of Writing - Friday, May 27, 2011 Dealing with Pain - Thursday, May 26, 2011 Cosmic Sense of Humor - Wednesday, May 25, 2011 Laws are Meant to be Broken - Monday, May 23, 2011 The Ability to Receive - Monday, May 23, 2011 Big Business - Monday, May 23, 2011 Dimensions of Living - Sunday, May 22, 2011 Nostalgia of Living - Sunday, May 22, 2011 The Fear of Truth - Sunday, May 22, 2011 A Grand Awakening - Sunday, May 22, 2011 Subject Needs Object - Friday, May 20, 2011 We Make our Own Bed - Thursday, May 19, 2011 Expression and Reflection - Thursday, May 19, 2011 Write When it is Time - Thursday, May 19, 2011 The Magic of Feeling - Wednesday, May 18, 2011 Astrological Insights - Tuesday, May 17, 2011 The Art of Waiting - Tuesday, May 17, 2011 Trust - Tuesday, May 17, 2011 Accept Yourself - Tuesday, May 17, 2011 To Make a Difference. - Monday, May 16, 2011 How to Look Within. - Sunday, May 15, 2011 Gift of Awareness - Sunday, May 15, 2011 Nothing is Ever Wasted. - Thursday, May 12, 2011 Success is not Success without Awareness - Wednesday, May 11, 2011 Awareness Follows Attention - Tuesday, May 10, 2011
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