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Dating Expert's Poll Shows Valentine's Day Interest Fading for Single Women
By Stephany Alexander
Tuesday, February 05, 2008

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Dating Expert Stephany Alexander Conducts Poll on how Single Women Feel About Valentine's Day

Las Vegas, NV(PRWEB) February 5, 2008 --   According to the U.S. Census Bureau there are more single women than men in America.  Traditionally, Valentine's Day has been a day for couples, sharing a romantic dinner out,  exchanging flowers, cards, and loving sentiments.  But what if you're single?

Valentine's Day can evoke feelings of low self-esteem, loneliness and depression for millions of single women.  According to a recent dating poll  of 1,840 single women conducted by 32 percent of single women felt "indifferent" toward Valentine's Day. In addition, 11 percent of single women surveyed said they felt "Valentine's Day was created to increase sales and is pointless."

Among the new social networking sites which focus on finding a date such as, more single women are finding support and community with other women at sites like which hosts one of the most popular women's forums where women share  dating advice and receive support overcoming past relationships. One single 27-year old woman confessed, "Every year I get depressed and lonely on Valentine's Day because I'm still single." In addition, Valentine's Day puts tremendous pressure on men to profess their love.  So what should single women do when they are bombarded with commercial images of love and see happy couples embraced when they are all alone?

Stephany Alexander, dating expert and founder of, which lists thousands of men who women warn not to date, suggests "Valentine's Day is not just for couples anymore."  According to Alexander, one of the top ways for single women to celebrate Valentines Day is to enjoy the benefits of being single. Here are a few tips for single women:

1.  Having a relationship does not define your identity.  You define your identity.  Recognize that if you are single, you aren't alone and you can still celebrate the love in your life through other important relationships.

2.  Understand that Valentine's Day is a commercial holiday that is mainly about sales; selling jewelry, flowers, candy and booking restaurant reservations. The  National Retail Federation estimates that Americans spend $13 billion each year on Valentine's gifts. You can choose not to be part of the consumer hype and make your Valentine's day more memorable.

3.  Decide what your definition Valentine's Day is. Is it a day you want to celebrate or is it just another day?  If it's just another day, simply go about your routine as usual and mark a date on your calendar when you wish to celebrate all forms of love in in your life.

4.  If you are recently single celebrate the day with other singles.  Make plans with friends or family who already love you whether you are single or not.  Do not let a couple-emphasized society define your choices.

5.  Plan to do something for yourself in advance. Don't make reservations at a restaurant on Valentine's Day or you will surround yourself with couples which may depress you.  Instead, rent your favorite DVD, take a long, decadent candle-lit bubble bath, treat yourself to buy an item from your favorite shop or book a day at a spa.

6. If you love being single, celebrate it, and not just on Valentine's Day. Use this particular day to try something new. Take up a new hobby, work on a project or work on yourself.  People who never marry or are single can have close, loving relationships and lives worth living.

7.  Volunteer.  Spend Valentine's Day giving and sharing your time to help others.  You may be able to give and receive more love by volunteering as a single than many couples do following the traditional route.

8. Take steps to meet someone new.  If you aren't happy being single, it is up to you to take action to change your situation.  Put yourself out there.  Consider trying on line dating, take up a hobby where you can meet some men such as golf, or ask your family and friends to set you up.

9. Celebrate love with your pet.  Hang out with your pet and if you don't have one, head to your local animal shelter and adopt.  Nothing is better than a pet who loves you unconditionally, cuddles and is warm and soft.

10.  Single mothers out there, lucky you!  You already have a Valentine and you can spoil your son or daughter by baking something special or simply spending time with them.

"Valentine's Day is for being grateful about love in all its forms which can be everything from loving a parent or grandparent, to loving your child or a friend," says Alexander.  "It can even be as simple as celebrating your love for a pet." However, as Whitney Houston once sang, the greatest gift of all is learning to love yourself."  Happy Valentine's Day!

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About the author:

Dating Expert Stephany Alexander is the founder of, the world's largest database rating men and the author of Sex, Lies and the Internet -- An On line Dating Survival Guide that shows women how to screen their dates.  She has been featured on FOX, Mike and Juliet Show, CBS Early Show, Associated Press, New York Times, Chicago Tribune and has been a guest on hundreds of radio shows worldwide. 

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Reviewed by william george 3/24/2009
Wow!! This blog and the topic contained in this blog is awesome. I stayed some hours and got various information from dating experts poll. Thanks for sharing this valuable topic.
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