It has been said by many of us that we are improperly mated. Some of the reason for such and apparent mismatchin can be explained by the law called karma, which means watever you sow, that shall you also reap. Gal.6:7. This law is mathematically accurate. Some men and women get into inharmonious relationships and wonder why did this happen to me, not knowning that these situtations are only a fulfilling of the universal law of karma.
For those of us who can lift our consciousness to the realization of reincarnation, some of the answers can be obtained. For those of us who cannot grasp this truth at this time, all things will be fulfilled in your mind at the appointed time. In our rounds of lives, births, deaths, marriages, and everyday relationships, we have previously met, loved, helped, rejected, hated, killed and missused many of those very persons that are in our lives right today.
All good seeds that are planted must grow. Likewise, all bad seeds will also grow, for it is the law. We cannot escap it. the law will work for you wether you know it or not.What ever the deed, if it was negative in nature, must be retrieved from the subconscious mind and forgiven. Now that is no small task.
You mignth ask: how can I be forgiven for something I can't even remember? Why must I pay for the past? This is a new life with a chance to start over. You are right in every aspect of this question.For very time we choose a good thought we reap more good thoughts. but every time we choose a negative thought we draw to us mor negative thought patterns. We must always remember we are the creators of our own destiny.
Karmic relationships are difficult indeed, because you have a debt to pay to the other person. Maybe on some level they owe you a debt too. Some time these relationship are powerful and addtivie There is constant critisim of the person. One person feels like a parent and the other person is the child. Control issues, physial abuse, mental abuse or both seem to over shadow any good in the relationship. You leave to only return for more abuse.
Karma has drawn you back together again to continue the drama, finish the lesson, or forgive the pass and go on. Whatever we do to others, will be done to us.if just to complete the circle of experience if nothing else. Only until we learn how it feels to be the giver and receiver of negative actions can we go on to higher levels of evloution.Seek not to hurt others by any means.Exalt all situations if you can. Learn the lessons that life is trying to teach you right now and STOP MAKING KARMA.
Love one another unconditionally. Pray for those mates who spitefully use you. No matter how hard it is turn the other cheek, Metaphorcially.Rememeber all is energy. How you use that energy is up to you.When we you first meet a partner ask yourself why you have choose that person. and what experience are you choosing for yourself. Seek to know your self better, and as you rise the whole world rises with you.