Throughout life I had always been a firm believer that sometimes we must go through the bad to finally reach the good.

Or actually this is just the way I had to look at it since my life was literally hell!

Yes many tears shed not just from the first cry, as I entered this world but would remain half a lifetime.

Of course there were the most happiest times as that’s a given and as I became a mother my joy grew with each passing day .

Sad to say there would be many fallen days also

However, my children, as every other parent knows they are truly the air that you breathe and undying love.

Although there always seems to be the love that’s untrue and yes most everyone in this walk of life knows what a broken heart is and of course how wrong, unfair and hard it is.

A broken heart can happen in many ways not just from the one you thought was Mr. Right or Miss Right as they turn out to be the wrong sad to say.

Especially after you roll in the hay seems that‘s when hearts become destine to break.

Since you are now giving all of you and yes your whole heart at that moment

Nevertheless, what is very sad are they really giving theirs back at that moment of passion or is it just a moment’s pleasure?


Furthermore, I cannot speak for others, but am sure many around this world has faced and dealt with the dreaded broken heart at one point and time .

Sad to say that seems to be a given and awful it is and almost secluded you may become from fear of not wanting to go through such anguish ever again and basically scared at that point to be crushed all over again.

What a headache indeed.

On the other hand to never take that chance again may be such a loss in the long run, as one just might be passing up the opportunity of a lifetime.


However,a migraine it may become, as one just never really knows a hundred percent if it will be another failed relationship since there are no sincere guarantees it seems.


Nevertheless, I have come to realize after living with a broken heart half my life and scared to death to open that assortment of problems again.


I am a firm believer though and like I stated had to keep that in mind so that I would not ever give up on this endless road of sorrow.

Or at the possibility of one day somewhere in time and unexpectedly Mr. Right may just come my way to perhaps say hey!
Hesitation of hurt of course but to literally give up completely on the thought of growing old with someone happily for once can truly become the biggest hurt.


Therefore when all else fails one thing is certain and that is to never give up on your hopes and dreams as uncertainty they might seem to be at the moment there is always a brighter side.

Given the fact that life is what we make it so the choice is all up to you, as you can either let something go at the drop of a hat or realize there are just some things in life worth struggling for.

However, there are certain things that must be let go and never looked back upon or otherwise the future ahead will not be so bright, as there are many thorns in a side.

Furthermore, one never knows what lies ahead and around the bend.


Although there are many roads with caution ahead, as you sure have come to learn over the hard years and become well aware of whom to pass by quickly.

Now you either make a wrong turn or remain on the right path as you see the bright rainbow ahead.



Furthermore I once was told words of wisdom that we might not meet just by chance?

Now I assume perhaps luck it just might be as you suddenly find yourself somewhere over the rainbow!