It’s a subject not many talk about, “the toy” or toys that are under the bed, in the side drawer by the bed, or even in a “box” wrapped in blue velvet.
As evolved, advanced, and open we think we are, there’s still a taboo element, a stigma associated to women and their toys.
Growing up nobody even talks about it, if we mention parts of the body, we’re told to hush up; basically your privates are private.
Did your friend mention it, or a boyfriend want to experiment, or did you go to one of those “parties” and see one for the first time? Whenever it was, curiosity took over. Say what you will, but the little battery operated toy soon become “Mr. V” and a part of your repertoire. (Alone or with a partner)
Due to upbringing whether religious or cultural many women still feel embarrassed and ashamed at bringing up the topic of “they toy”, walking into a sex shop or worse yet suggesting it to their significant other.
Many men feel threatened at the power of “they toy”; and let’s face it, the toy can go on, and on...and on... unless the battery dies, and then all you have to do is get some new ones and you’re good to go again!
Sadly, a lot of women don’t even know how it feels to truly see those rockets go off, (1000 metaphors, I chose this one) and let’s face it’s one of the basic pleasures in life.
A true release of energy (hormones and pheromones) go wild – that’s what makes one sleep better, feel better, have a glow on the cheek and yes the smile before falling asleep.
One thing is certain; women that know the pleasure of the toy in the box know that once they’ve experienced it, they want to play with that toy again and again.
Do yourself a favour, put aside any negative thoughts that you were taught and relish in knowing that it’s calorie free, makes you feel good, and healthy for you.... you can’t say that about too many things today!