So there you are driving, or maybe out walking, just the two of you having what seems to be a wonderful time together until that very moment when all of a sudden those eyes of his heads east or west following the route of some little Chica passerby who is conveniently looking a smidgen more sexier than you. So what do you do? Of course this is one of the most uncomfortable positions to be in right ladies...because with everything in you, you'd like to sock it to the both of them but in the end you'll be the one that's in the wrong.
Well believe it or not there is a way to keep it from happening to you. It's called "communication". When you communicate you're not just talking to the other party you are also listening to them. Listening and paying attention are both very important and necessary in a successful relationship. It not only helps you to grow closer but you can embark on some very helpful nuggets concerning loving him in the way that he needs.
Common Mistakes We Make..
Mistake number one is to think that because you are an excellent cook, and a star acrobat in the bedroom, waiting on him hand and foot that you are his total dream come true . You can do all of these things without end and still have a very unhappy man on your hands. Everyone of us is different having various needs and desires, and no matter who you are, if you're unfulfilled then you're going to be unsatisfied too.
Mistake number two is not putting yourself first. Yes we women we do a lot on a day-to-day basis especially those of us who are full-time working moms. We are very busy for the most part of our day with work and when we get home it's like going to a second job sometimes, so in our down time last thing we want to do is get all dressed up. Likewise for moms that work from home we could spend the day in sweats, with our hair up in a ponytail.
There's nothing wrong with being comfortable and relaxing. However the goal should always be, to be the best you, that you can possibly be. That includes good health, good hygienic practices and keeping a good self-image. If you can't find time to take care of yourself, then how can you possibly find time to take care of your man? And why would he find a woman who doesn't care enough to keep her own self up, even for his sake, attractive. If you are looking good for him most of the time when he's seeing you then he wouldn't want to take a quick peek else where.
Another no-no is having a bad attitude...all of the time. Smiling is a great connecting factor for a couple. Remind him over and over again of how sweet and incredibly sexy you are by smiling for him just as you did in the beginning of the relationship. Overreacting a lot less will take off loads of stress in the long run. Sometimes men have trouble expressing how they feel doing and saying the wrong things, but when you put forth a good attitude then we make it more welcoming easier to feel comfortable saying whatever is on his mind.
So what do men really want in order to remain loyal?
A good looking fresh and clean woman, that can cook, dance, read, write, live out his every fantasy, mostly nice, but naughty when needed, straight to the point, open and honest, good motherly and wife material if needed....fearless babe whose ready to take on the world with him.....but even if he did get all of the above the main thing that would keep him coming back and wanting only you is, "you" loving him right now just as he is, willing to grow with him as he changes, listening to him when he talks, and most importantly showing him that "he" is your everything...they all go hand in hand.
So before you leave home or go out in the open...smile, touch, build him up, tell him you love him, and make sure you look and smell damn good!!!