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Heart transplant no longer needed
By Jerry W. Engler
Last edited: Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Posted: Wednesday, June 11, 2008

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Exercise, drugs and medical knowhow contribute to bringing Gerald Kelsey of Marion, Kansas, off the heart transplant list, but you can't beat the biggest factors of all, faith, family and friends support, and good attitude.
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Gerald Kelsey, 64, Marion, Kansas, is off the list to receive a heart transplant after more than three years of more recent heart problems, and he’s thankful.

He’s thankful for his faith in God, for family, friends, and medical attention. But he was also thankful for the interview that produced this article because he has a message for you.

Kelsey said he wanted to tell you, and everyone else, that no matter what kind of a problem you have, don’t give up, never give up, just keep on going. If I had given up, I’d be dead. Giving up is death.”

One of the persons he thanks the most for where he’s at is a person who didn’t want to let him give up. That’s his wife, Sharon.

He credits Sharon with being the one who told him, after enduring such things as by-passes and having his heart shocked back into rhythm, to get up every morning, get dressed, get ready for the day.

He never was told to lay in bed, and be miserable thinking about his condition. That’s the discipline and thinking that also helped him start walking, the physical act that did the most to save him, Kelsey said.

At first it was a trial just to get up out of his chair, Kelsey said. Then he decided to walk a block, exerting himself to the point that he was gasping for breath so badly that he wondered if he would make it back home.

But the next time, Kelsey said walking the block was a little easier. He extended into a second block. That walking in the last year and a half led him to where he now walks two miles, which is 24 blocks,  daily.

To see him get up from his chair, and move around easily in his home, a person would never know he’d had a problem.

Kelsey grew up on Cedar Street in Marion not far from where he lives now on Coble. He’s a life-long Marion resident who says he’s enjoying becoming reacquainted with old schoolmates who move back to town for retirement after being away for years to places like the West Coast.

He also was Marion County road and bridge director for nine years before his heart condition forced him to retire three and a half years ago. He’d had a quadruple bypass 9 or 10 years before that.

Even though being road and bridge director could be stressful, Kelsey said he’d always enjoyed being “a small town guy,” and knowing everybody.

He liked learning new things in his work, and getting to know even more people.

“But I’d had rheumatic fever in high school. My cardiologist, Dr. Beck, said there was a lot of damage to my heart from it.

“Before my surgery, looking at my heart, he didn’t know how many heart attacks I must have had. When they looked at my x-ray, my heart was so enlarged, he said they couldn’t see my lungs. I couldn’t get up from my chair, and walk anywhere afterwards without the pain in my arms just killing me.”

He endured many things. Kelsey had to get special permission from his insurance carrier, Blue Cross-Blue Shield, to be a transplant candidate at St. Francis in Wichita because Blue Cross normally doesn’t use that hospital.

He couldn’t drive during those three years because of being too weak or too confused. Most of the time Sharon drove him or his brother, Bud, who also lives in Marion.

He said he had to meet with psychologists to make sure his attitudes stayed up to make it through transplant surgery. Every three months, Kelsey said, an instrument was run down through his carotid artery to look at his heart.

All of that is over now. Kelsey said the surgeons tell him he is the only one of three or four St. Francis candidates on the transplant list to go off of it. They’ve done transplants for 15 years. He’s a rarity. “It was amazing.”

Even afterwards, when Kelsey was able to walk up into the stands to see his grandson play football, he didn’t want to stop to catch his breath because he knew people would be watching him.

He gave up golf. He loved fishing, but with added impetus from Sharon, who worried about him out in a boat, he got rid of his boat.

Bud still takes him in his boat for his favorite fishing, for walleye and large mouth bass, and he does some dock fishing. “We eat a lot of fish, and I have to eat that or poultry instead of beef. I was one of those guys who liked to eat all the fat with my pork chop.” Kelsey replied. “But I really accepted it well. I didn’t get depressed. I could have given up, and like I said, I would have been dead three years ago. I’ve had lots of support.”

Kelsey said much of the time two or three family members would accompany him on trips to the hospitals. Sharon has always been there for him through everything, he said.

So have his children, Kristine, 43, Salina, grandmother of his first great grandchild, Kerry, 41, and his wife, Laurie, Marion County Lake, and Mike 39, and his wife, Jennifer, Wichita. Kelsey said the addition of his nine grandchildren “definitely has given me something to live for.”

He added that he was from a family of nine children himself, and Sharon was from a family of eight children at Durham, so there has been a large extended family to offer support, too.

One sister-in-law, Margie Ensminger who lives in Louisiana, even bought him a large screen television to enjoy one of his favorite pastimes, watching sports.

Kelsey said he received many prayers through the Lutheran Church in Marion where he and Sharon are members as well as from other congregations in town. A fellow church member, Anita Schlehuber, took the time to add Kelsey to the world prayer list.

He’s also thankful for the many cards and letters he received.

Kelsey mainly credits his walking and the medical doctors for his recovery. But he also credits a regimen of taking seven or eight medications, especially one called Coreg. He also believes an over-the-counter supplement has contributed greatly to increasing his heart health, a substance called CoQ10, coenzyme Q10.

He doesn’t feel up to the walking required for pheasant hunting, but Kelsey likes turkey hunting because “you call them to you.”

Life is good, and worth enjoying, he said.


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Reviewed by Lois Christensen 6/11/2008
Prayers are the most important thing I think there is in life. Necessary and helpful when a prayer list is there for you. Prayers are answered if they are spread around and a lot of people get together and pray for someone else's health. I do absolutely believe in the power of prayer and this story proves it to be true.
Reviewed by Gianetta Ellis 6/11/2008
I've heard so many stories about those who have been "counseled" by family or the medical community to give up the things they most love because the activities were no longer "sensible" due to the person's age or physical condition only to have that person whither away and pass on in a seemingly untimely way. When we take away those things that a person most loves and is most passionate about, we steal their very breath. It becomes a form of "giving up", as you write. How sad that "well-meaners" can create the very result they wished to avoid. We must keep the resolve within ourselves to follow our bliss and live within our niche - it is the most restorative and healthful way to live. The things we love can help us endure and persevere. Very nice article, Jerry.

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