Most people seem to agree that spying on your partner without their knowledge without having just cause is wrong.  However, is it always wrong to spy if your partner has given you indication of infidelity?  Most people suggest open communication if they suspect infidelity but many times the cheating partner will lie about being unfaithful and cover their tracks better.  Unless you have concrete, factual proof of the infidelity, cheaters often deny any wrongdoings.

If your partner is being unfaithful, it is likely the relationship will eventually end whether you spy or not.  However, if you spy and confirm that he or she is cheating, then you have the option of either trying to save the relationship or leaving.  By not investigating at all, you may be living a lie.  The ultimate mistake is to do nothing and bury your head in the sand.  Whether it is communication, counseling or spying, the goal is to get the truth out in the open.

There are currently many technological surveillance devices on the market to catch a cheater - everything from a computer keystroke logger that tracks every keystroke to a voice activated digital recording device.  There are now even GPS tracking devices no larger than a pack of gum that trace everywhere a car goes.  For your own safety, please make sure that you check your local laws before spying on your partner.  The ultimate decision on what to do if you suspect infidelity is up to you. However, as the old saying goes, “the truth shall set you free.”

Infidelity Expert, Stephany Alexander, B.A., Author, Women's Speaker
Ms. Alexander is the founder of http://www.WomanSavers.com, the world's largest database rating men, one of the most popular women's sites on the net (top 1%) receiving millions of hits per month.

Credentials: 
*Founder - highest trafficked abused women's message board on the net
* Author of 'Sex, Lies and the Internet,' A Survival Guide to Online Dating http://www.sexliesandtheinternet.com
* Author of 50+ relationship articles & 22 quizzes
* Creator of 10 women's comedy cartoon e-cards and 6 online games
* Internet Polling Expert surveying over 350,000 women

Ms. Alexander is frequently called on by the media as the nation's leading Infidelity Expert. Featured on:  E! Entertainment, CBS, FOX, the Mike & Juliet Show (repeat expert), Esquire, Wall Street Journal, the New York Times, the National Enquirer, Sirius-XM, KROQ, KIIS & countless radio and internet shows.

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