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How To Re- Define Rejection
by Sukky J Fagbohun   
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Last edited: Monday, March 10, 2008
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2008

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Rejection does not spell failure but defines success

Rejection is a monster that we all will face sometime during the course of human existence. Rejection comes with many faces, and it adopts various shapes. As a Christian writer and author, I am familiiar with the pain, ridicle, and stigma of rejection. Rejection itself is powerless, until one succumbs to its spell. A lot of people resign themselves to the fate that rejection throws on their way. Many see rejection as a road block and not a detour, and a vast majority of people focus on its immediate negative impact, while they overlook its potential. Passion and optimism, in my estimation are the best weapons necessary to defeat rejection. A passionate man will never succumb to failure, nor permit himself to be bound by the voice of rejection. Passion has the ability to strip rejection of its potent venom. The passionate man will not make rejection a destination, but a commencement of the journey. I believe that rejection is life's way of handing us an eraser. It is an opportunity for us to make corrections rather than tear the book. It is the opportunity for a makeover, the end result of which is always beauty or marked improvement. People face rejection at times, not because of incompetence, but because they are over-qualified. The problem in this case, then becomes that of the rejecter and not that of the rejected. The best approach to rejection is never to let it define who or what you are. A winning approach is not to fight, but to passionately embrace it and see it as a friend and not an enemy. When we redefine rejection, we make a choice to not let it drown us in the river with other rejects, but rather, to keep afloat and swim until we get to the banks of the river where success awaits. The true reject is one who fails to see its purpose.  

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Reviewed by sandra butler (Reader) 11/27/2010
Truely inspired by your work, I became a fan after reading this article..I believe that rejection should be re-defined as a positive instead of the negative stigma we use to proclaim this word in a cause and effect which is the ideation of suicide.
Reviewed by John Domino 6/7/2008
I loved your article on rejection! You are truly special! I look forward to reading more! Yes, we don't need to accept rejection - we need to be aware of what others are trying to do and pray about where The Lord wants us to go next. Bravo!

Yours In Christ,

John Michael
Reviewed by Cynth'ya 1/22/2008
Saw your "StepsforHim" site as I studied your info. You truly love young people. Will be in contact very soon. Praise God!
cynth'ya lewis reed
Reviewed by Eileen Granfors 1/11/2008
Well said. And I like the idea that Wilkinson used in "Secrets of the Vine," that we all need pruning in order to flourish! I've been pruned back quite a bit and am ready to flower. Good ideas to ponder. Thanks, Sukky.

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