I wanted to take this opportunity to introduce myself, tell you a little bit about why I'm here, and why after many years of writing, I decided to venture into writing about relationships.
Relationship topics are always popular because relationship problems will always exist. Most of us have experienced the hurt, and anguish of a broken heart, but it happens every day. And at many stages in my life, I too have experienced it, but after five marriages and 18 marriage proposals, I have gained the knowledge of certain key elements to maintaining a healthy, happy and fulfilling relationship.
I decided to write “I Need Therapy” because at some point in a woman’s life we’ve all silently made this statement, whether we admit it or not.
When some of you experience problems within your relationships, you run out and buy our books, or sit at home watching Dr. Phil hoping that you will learn the key to fixing all of your problems. Believe me, I’m not pointing fingers, I used to be that person.
I, like most of you, have had my heart broken more times than I can count. I can vividly remember a time back in my early twenties, when a man I was dating told me that he didn't want me anymore. To me, this was unimaginable and it hurt like hell . . . how in the hell could he not want me!
From that point, it seemed like the more he showed me that he didn’t want me, the more determined I was to make him love me.
I had to learn a hard lesson. I had to learn to love MYSELF and recognize my worth! And once I did, I developed a different attitude toward this man. I realized that he didn’t deserve me.
When I learned this powerful lesson, I stopped calling him, hounding him, driving past his apartment or place of business. I stopped my obsessive behavior, because ladies, you know we can develop obsessive behavior. But when I stopped . . . the roles reversed. He started ringing my phone off the hook, driving past my house and coming into my place of business with the pretense of conducting business.
He couldn’t understand how he had lost his hold over me. Ladies, sometimes we too freely give up control to a man.
Years later, I had the opportunity to have a conversation with this man. He admitted that during that time he was unhappy because he was trying to convince me to make a decision and I wouldn't budge, so he decided see just how far he could push me. He never imagined he was pushing me right out of his life.
There are certain things in life that we can’t change. We can’t change a man, change his mind or his way of thinking.
The only thing that you have control over is YOU! You can change your behavior and your way of thinking.
I am so happy to know that this book has helped so many women. I receive emails every day from women who say how “I Need Therapy” has literally changed their lives. I also receive emails from men who say that they found the book to be “on point” and helpful in understanding what women want from their relationships.
It gives me such pleasure to know that this book that I poured so much of myself into, is actually serving the purpose in which it was written.
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Remember I Need Therapy makes the perfect Christmas gift for almost any reader. Give some Therapy to someone you love!