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Well, now that your are getting a divorce, here are some interesting tips on how to deal with the anger that will eventually come.
DEALING WITH ANGER AFTER DIVORCE
By:
Mileah K Shore
Well, you started out in love with each other. Staring into one another's eyes in a longing and loving manner. You plan your entire life with your spouse. The two of you plan for children, a home, career and maybe even where and when you will retire. But suddenly you find yourself alone. There may have been some warning and yet there may not have been. All you know right now is that your marriage is finished.
It doesn't matter who did what anymore. You are angry about many things; your uncertain future, your finances, your broken heart. You will go through many emotions during this time but anger is quite possibly the most dangerous one. This unpleasant emotion will also be the most common. It will have to be dealt with on an ongoing basis. Especially if there are children involved in the failed marriage.
Your particular anger level will be determined by many factors. It will mostly depend on who did what despicable things during the divorce. If there was infidelity involved there will be a different type of anger than if they took all the money and closed the accounts. Pain is pain, all the same level just different type.
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| Reviewed by Aubrey Hammack |
8/11/2009 |
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| Mileah, now that's a nice name. Sorry about the divorce. I think that this is a topic that much could be written about. You did a good job with this write. |
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| Reviewed by Romantic Poetess Victoria L. McColley |
7/2/2008 |
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I believe it is better to have an ending to any relationship that is unhealthy no matter if one feels there is nothing wrong, because for the other perosn there apparently is something wrong or unfufilling(the one who wishes to leave/infidelity whatever) It take 2 people to make a relationship work & only one person to end it. The grief & pain of loss is a nessesary step in renewals recovery to start anew. Your article is informative, and anger truely is very dangerous & self destructive as well. I was mis prescribed a medication and I encounter rage for months I was a cannon & finally I had gone to another doctor to complain about that whom told me I was seriously mis medicated since I in norm do not react like that. Anger/Rage can cause strokes in a person if left to master the emotions. I enjoyed your article
Embraced ~ Embrassé
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| Reviewed by Linda Law |
7/1/2008 |
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| Again, I enjoy your writing. Divorce is difficult even in the "best" situations. My personal feeling is that to spend so much time and anger and negative on the situation that cannot be changed is a waste, and also gives POWER to the one that has hurt YOU! Move forward, even if you have to fool yourself for the time being...Do not speak negatively about him/her, or any of it...just smile and that speaks VOLUMES... I remain "friends" with ex's..all of them! don't laugh.. divorce doesn't have to be just "husbands/wives"...divorce can often be friendships, relationships, jobs, etc.. Stress breeds contempt...and vice versa.. You are right on in this article. Lindalaw |
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