The Commandments of Escorting

By

D.E.Z. Butler

The mere act of dating for money has its cavalcade of ideas from experts and “SEX-PERTs”. In reading some of the ideas behind the experts’ comments, I would say many of them have tried working for escort services or tried asking men to pay them for their time. Not as a habit or a profession, but just to see what the hype is all about. If tried, or done, just a few times and possibly interviewed with only a handful of people; this does not qualify them as “SEX-PERTs”.

Well, I am an expert and "SEX-PERT" on dating and relationships and my world was both for money and profit. My dating for just the fun associated with getting to know another person who was of the opposite sex went on for many years. After 40 years of dating I know what men want and what they dislike.

The reason a man wants to go out with a woman is to get to know her. His wants are simple and his needs are even simpler. If he is paying, yes, he wants sex. How the rest of the relationship moves forward is up to the woman. If it is just sex the man wants out of the relationship, then the woman should make sure she is asking for all the perks. Meaning she should get something out of the relationship and not feel shy about asking for rent money or a new dress. I appeal to your better judgment and get him to buy some books or CDs for you. Jewelry is wonderful and should always be hock able. But under no circumstances give him all the perks out of the relationship. And for men, yes, sex is a perk in a relationship.

When writing my books I have tried to increase awareness for men and women as to why men want to pay for time with women. As part of my own awareness of men and their motivations I have also decided that all women can benefit from a few commandments that I put in place for my escorts when they worked for my escort service.

Please find those commandments here and utilize them in your own dating life.  

The Escorts’ Commandments of serving men on earth:

1.       Don’t steal from the clients.

2.       Don’t tell his wife or girlfriend.

3.       Never phone him first.

4.       Get your money up front.

5.       No pity.

6.       Be his instrument of fascination.

7.       Do what he wants and what you feel comfortable doing with him.

8.       Don’t fall in love with him.

9.       Make sure he is satisfied with you.

10.   Make sure you leave him smiling.

When followed, the above commandments will support the user’s goals in harboring an interest

in the finances and a possible relationship with the man they are dating. Maybe not all the commandments relate to your own dating world, but they will help you understand how escorts think about the men they are seeing for money; and how you should think while pursuing a man or many men.

                Remember that a marriage, relationship, dating experience is time out of your life. Time is valuable and you should know that your time is worth something.