Ain' t it a shame that black people love to play head games with each other for foreplay. Why do we have to fuck each other in the head to get horny ?
For example, why does a brotha's ego have to get stroked verbally by a female for him to get aroused, and likewise, why does her vanity have to be appeased for her to get aroused?
You know, shit like,...
" Oooo baby I love yo muscles boy!"
" Damn baby that body is so off the chain! I love yo soft ass booty gurl"
And any other variation of the above, from poetic, to academic to straight hood. Y'all feel that.
Black people get very emotional about body parts...and hairdos, and nails, and toes, and underwear. And also scents, perfumes, oils, lotions, colognes. In my experience, the more exotic (..., or hard to pronounce) the better.
You can have all the verbal game in the world, but if you ain't physically equipped in the bedroom, more than likely, nowadays , you will be told. Your feelings will get hut. And most times, the whole hood, or at least most of the sexually active sister in it will hear about your disability.
That ain't hot at all.
That shit could go on for a long time. Rumors based on fact, or actual verbal accounts stay in our culture for a long time, mutating, usually for the worse throughout time.
Ey, the game is to be sold not told. Ain't that a quote right there. I am SO sure one of the most succesful sex peddlers in the world came up with that science, huh?
What do mosat sisters say about about a brother that can't attract her senses verbally, or at least psychologically.
" He ain't got no kinda game ."
So why do we say "game". A game is something you play. Something that we scold our children for doing too much and not handling their biz.
MORE TO COME...