Now sometimes expectations are a part of life.  For instance we are expected to be polite and we are expected to do our jobs.  Children are expected to learn to say thank you and adults are expected to say thank you.  There are certainly more examples but you see what I mean.

But there are times when expectations are not exactly fair.  We all seem to get a sense of others and I suppose get comfortable with how people we know are suppose to act.  It's almost as if there are boundaries that people are expected to stay within.  Now if something is harmful certainly we can expect that a person will not do this but to decide how a person will be is not really fair.  People change and that's OK.  Sometimes we learn new things, or have better understandings, or sometimes just want to do something we have never done before.

Maybe it's better not to have so many expectations and just let people find their way.  Maybe it's OK if we get out of our comfort zones once in awhile. Maybe life is too short to be too comfortable.

Just thinking a little.