RAPE - REASONS BEHIND AND THE SOLUTION (PART TWO)
edited: Tuesday, March 26, 2002
By uppalapati Lakshmi Prasanthi
Posted: Tuesday, March 26, 2002
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This is continuation of my article "Rape - Women".
What is the actual psychological syndrome behind this? Male ego we can say. The second thing and the most important which I want to emphasize is: The nudity and the vulgarity in the pictures.
Whether the films from Vernacular Languages or Hindi Pictures or Hollywood films, Women were being picturised as salable products. Obscene scenes in the films try to aggravate the feelings of unmatured youth. Conducting Beauty contests in the name of Personality development, but what is it actually? Moving cameras and focusing on the private parts of ladies with almost naked bodies. Is it fashion? Is it culture?
Why women were being shown and treated as commodities who satisfy sexual needs? Why don't we protest? A woman's respect is not in the "Sexy" title but in the "Strengthy" nature. Confidence, Sensitive but stubborn nature, Intelligence, Creativity, Compassionate tendency commands respect towards women. A woman need to be sexy only to her husband and strengthy to everyone.
At the social level, we should protest against the vulgarity and Nudity and should ban the released pictures and also we should strike against those film makers and let them not direct such kind of films. Actresses also should support .
At the psychological level, it is completely male ego that made them do this heinous acts. To suppress women, they try to demoralise and threaten them by raping.
I strictly support Poolan Devi who became famous as Bandit Queen. She killed 14 Takurs who raped and tortured her. We should never leave those dirty idiots, scoundrals.
A Hindi Picture starring Dimple Kapadia as heroine showed a solution. Heroine is a strict police officer. When she attaaaacks the smugglers, they rape her. But she couldn't prove it. Her lover gives moral support to her and ask her to continue in her job. Those who raped her teases her. She wants to teach everyone a lesson. So she along with the help of some other women works a plan. The plan is to trap such kind of men and gives them Anaesthesia and operate them such that they become useless for Sex. They remove the sex organs of the men.
I feel this as the good Punishment. But Men are cruel than Beasts. They become Sadists and they will again torture. The Best Punishment is to kill them. What do they think of women and of themselves? Every man should fear woman. They dare not to approach with such bad notions.
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|Reviewed by Srinivas Surya (Reader)
|I personally feel so strongly about rape that, I would recommend the Death Pena;ty for rapists. Its gross violation of a personal sanctity and reflects nothing but the worst nature of a beast in man.
I had a friend...she was so beautiful...but instead of feeling happy about it she treated it as a curse upon her... Imagine , someone treating beauty as a curse !
The reason was that she hailed from a small village and had to stay alongwith her brother in a room in thge nearby town to study in college. Her father had arranged the "Room' in one of his close friends' houses.
I met her at a youth festival, she was so beautiful, cheerful and warm. However,m after interacting with her for a few days, I felt there was some underlying sorrow within her, which she wasn't expressing.
So one fine day, I made a trip to the town she was staying in, to talk it out with her. While I sat with her in her room, and was talking, we were frequently disturbed by a guy, who was supposedly her uncle's (father's friend, who was the houseowner) son.
He kept calling her out and she used to come back. I didnt know what he said to her, but she seemed a bit bothered abt him.
Anyway, I couldnt get to know much from her. But I went to her place again in the evening. Her brother was also present. I asked her straightforwardly..."you have some problem and you aren't telling me it. Pls tell me, I will definitely show you a way out"
It isn't that I can show her any way out, but atleast that will encourage her to tell me her problem. Naturally most people keep their problems to themselves without sharing with their friends because they feel its either too shameful , or its a problem where no one can help.
At that time, she seemed willing to talk, but was a bit hesitant, so I asked her brother to go to another room and leave us alone. What followed was something that ripped my heart and which I could never forget in my life. She literally fell on my lap and cried with such pain that I cannot explain her anguish, and sorrow. She told me that her owner's son had given her some intoxicating drink one day and raped her. Not only that, after that, when she regained consciousness, he told her that he had raped her, and as proof of his rape, he had left certain bite marks and scars on near her private parts. Secondly, he started blackmailing her and kept repeatedly raping her and extorting sexual favours as he pleased.
Subsequently, his blackmail reached a phase where he started restricting her from talking to anyone, as he was afraid that she may tell anyone bat this incident. He also told her that he had taken nude photographs of her and that he would put them up in the college.
The girl was so concerned about the disgrace that would be brought to her family if this thing was known that she complied with that beast's wishes. She felt there was no way out...and finally threatened that beast saying that she would die if he made any more demands. At that time, that senseless guy proposed a solution saying that "if she beds him for a further 200 times, he will leave her".
She was not happy with the proposal, and was on the verge of committing suicide, when I entered her life.
Finally, that guy wasn't worth a pig, either in matter of principles, ethics or looks. He is one of the ugliest persons I had ever come across, and he looked true to his nature...like a senseless beast.
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