What does True Love Means?
edited: Monday, November 22, 2010
By Sagar Satpathy
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Posted: Friday, September 10, 2010
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The Writing about the meaning of "TRUE LOVE"
What does "True Love" Signifies.....What comes to ur mind when u hear these two words together? Do u think about some Hollywood movie with your favourite Stars? Or about Any card that is given by you with sweet words written on It.? Or something like these? All these are not in sense true Love what I say. It’s just an illusion or you can say Mindset.
Love should be like a river, just like a river that maintains its flow even when there is no rain at all. The one which maintains its flow round the year and external factors does not affect it. Now, how does this perennial river describes the ‘True Love’? The answer to that is the river manifests the three main characteristics of ‘True Love’. When you Love someone truly that means that you Love that person Unconditionally, Endlessly and without any limitation. It’s what the true nature of love. Truth defines love not condition, love should always be natural without any modification, same as love as he/she is not that keeping him her in own angles.
If you say I love a person, but to get that love if the person do each things you like and shouldn't do things you don’t like then its not what u say "True Love". We should never impose conditions on any one; we should never become possessive in nature. It’s not necessary that the person will feel comfortable in the mould created by you. She/he may adjust to please you to make you happy, coz he/she loves you, but it's not his/her true nature. And where "True Nature" is not there How come "True Love" will come into existence. It’s just next to impossible. You may ask that "When there are people who are manipulative, cunning, deceitful, and selfish how can we allow them, how can we show unconditional love towards them? These questions will surely come to us when we look at other people expecting them to do what we would do in their situations. We have to realize that we are not them and they are not us. We are individuals and we have some individuality. And moreover circumstances are different all the times. Every person may not think like you because the past is different for you and them. I was saying about a river, its like unconditional, it doesn’t give more water to a rich person and less water to a poor one. Just like this if he/she loves you more or less, in your part you should love unconditionally then only you can experience the ecstasy of "True Love" the Unconditional Love.
After that if you say someday "I loved that person once" but now I don't love him/her. It means that you had never loved that Person, it may be a attraction or infatuation which we mistakenly take as True Love. Then people ask, “How can you love a person throughout your life, won’t you get bored with same person for such long?” Again they are not talking about ‘True Love’ at all.
Let’s see about the Love of the mother, will any mother say, “Son I have loved you for the past 15 years and now I am bored, go away let me get another son.” Will she ever say like this?? Then Question is "Why Don't YOU?" 'True Love' never wanes; with time it only grows deeper. When we look at people like this we cannot get bored; on the contrary, I doubt if one lifetime would be sufficient to give them all the Love they truly deserve from us. It’s always less than what they deserve. and we say that "How to love a Single Person". It’s what I was saying the 21st Century mindset. The river is full of water in the rainy season, but even in the scorching heat of summer it remains some water in it and never stops flowing. It delivers a small amount of water to the Ocean, still it Delivers....never stops its stream. Similarly, love should be like this and we should never stop loving, we should always love endlessly.
I have heard many times people saying, people of my age, I love this person more than the other person. Question comes to my mind that "Are you choosing vehicle??" There you know what the real thing is; you don’t love either of the people truly. Is it examination, that you give 75/100 to one and 90/100 to other? True love has only one limit that is "infinity'. Does your love's limit tend to Infinity? Check it...!! The one for whom your loves is infinity, you think of that person and that person fills your mind..!! That person now is your World, yours everything. You can take any hardship to keep him/her happy and will never let any difficulty to come to him/her. You can do anything to keep her smiling always. There is no percentage, nothing that can feel this height of happiness in your life. So, never set limits for your love, limit reduces the love, Love should always be Limitless.
Now question arises in our mind that how many persons we can love unconditionally? My Guruji His Holiness Sri Sri Ravishankarji gives a wonderful answer to this, "Whole world, Love each and every individual coz Love Moves the World" and secondly one more thing is Trust. If you love someone and have trust in him/her then your love will be rich. If u love a person who loves everyone, it’s because you have no other option. If u love a person, who loves you then you are doing great job. If u love a Person who doesn't love you, You have learnt a lesson in life. And if you love a person who doesn't even care about you then you have learnt the Art of Living. Make your Love Unconditional, Endless and Limitless. You will get the real Happiness.
If you know what True Love is, every moment will feel the happiness and the Aura of Love. They will make you rich not only mentally but also spiritually. Each person you 'Love Truly' makes you immensely richer in an Extraordinary way. Its like a perfect source of Enlightenment that no one can take away from You. You will feel blessed if whole world loves you. But they will Love you only when you love them truly. So, Learn to Love all.
If you have not started thinking like this then you have never came across "True Love", you have never started Loving Truly and you don't know what's the essence of “True Love” is.nd you don't know what's the essence of “True Love” is.
Love to all....Enjoy life with Happiness
Regards and Love,