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The Older Generation
1/15/2012 4:20:05 PM
Mom said that today she along with my sister, Olive, Mrs. Stanwick (She is the mother of Michael, Laurenís fiancť) and Lauren went to American Canyon (a city close by Vallejo, California) to exercise. To her, exercising meant walking. It was not jogging or doing some aerobics. When she answered my call, they just came back from American Canyon and she said that she felt so refreshed.

You see, my mom is seventy-four; and in six months time, she would be seventy-five. Supposedly, old ladies like her walked substantially slow, suffering with all sort of diseases and hunchbacked. At least that was the image I had about old ladies, then. Even their way of thinking was slow to bordering on senility. They would not care about the clothes they wore. They would wear socks that did not match and a sundress fit for old folks. It truly would be sad to see her in this state, indeed.

But for her age, she is amazingly young. I know that I told her that doing all sorts of things or participating in her church activities was not considered exercise. A concentrated effort in exerting oneself for its own sake and not mixed in with doing other things is exercise. And I checked on her daily progress in exercising. So, she normally goes to the Vallejo pier where jogger and fisherman spend their morning leisurely activities. But she still goes to social events. She attend parties, dances and attend the different activities of two different churches like singing in the choir, novenas, prayer meetings and yearly and occasional shows presented to the public.

Aside from her own activities, she truly cared for her children, checking on both of us, my sister and me, on the activities we do. She felt hurt if she was not included in the activities she thought she should part of. And her concern for her grandchildren, Lauren and Taylor, was utmost. When it was time for her to decide whether she would end up in Vallejo or Portland, she opted for Vallejo because she believed that she can be of greater service to her grandchildren. But granted that she was old, she still did my sisterís accounting. Her beliefs were very conservative. When Obama won the election of 2008, she said that she was glad that he won. I asked why. She said that she voted for McCain because McCain did not support abortion even though she liked Obama; that was why. And mind you, she did not put on different pair of socks or dressed up in sundresses for old people. She, however, dresses conservatively, too. We would tease her but all was in good stance.

My sister and I had suffered strokes. It occurred to her that we might die before her and that scared her. She would always confide this to me. I said, why think about that in advance. Let us see where life all takes us. Let us not think about that, for now. Besides, there was the next generation to take care of her, Lauren and Taylor.

My mom. I think that like all good moms, they are the unsung heroes that we take for granted. We teased them. We poo-poohed their beliefs. We leave them to themselves. But, like any good mom, she takes everything in, sometimes to herself and not let things go. She holds us steadfast for when she passes to the next life, there will be no one to lead us.

If I had children, I like to be like her. And if I reach that mature age of seventy-four and maybe more, I like to be that steadfast man that would lead his family just like her, leading the next generation so that the next generation can lead the next one and the next.

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More Blogs by Paul Cuenco
• Predicament: Dave and Annette's Housewarming 2012 - Sunday, September 16, 2012
• Predicament: Portland Sands and its vicinity - Sunday, September 02, 2012
• Predicament: Mississippi Street Fair, Portland, Oregon - Saturday, August 25, 2012
• Predicament: Astoria, Oregon - Friday, August 17, 2012
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• Predicament: Saving Money - Wednesday, May 23, 2012
• Predicament: Old Haunts - Sunday, May 13, 2012
• Predicament: Courteous Portland Traffic - Wednesday, May 02, 2012
• Sorry - Wednesday, April 11, 2012
• Predicament: A Day at the Beach - Thursday, April 05, 2012
• Predicament: Dinner at a Deserted Restaurant - Tuesday, April 03, 2012
• Predicament: My Stroke and Writing - Monday, April 02, 2012
• Predicament: The World of the Bay Area - Sunday, April 01, 2012
• Predicament: A Competitor Indeed - Saturday, March 31, 2012
• Predicament: Democracy! - Friday, March 30, 2012
• Predicament: The Garden Party - Thursday, March 29, 2012
• Predicament: Gift-Giving - Wednesday, March 28, 2012
• Predicament: Suicide - Tuesday, March 27, 2012
• Predicament: Water, Water Everywhere - Monday, March 26, 2012
• Predicament: The Floods Of Manila - Sunday, March 25, 2012
• Predicament: Tita Dimple's recollection of Papa Trining - Saturday, March 24, 2012
• Predicament: The Future Should Be Brighter - Friday, March 23, 2012
• Predicament: Death of a Writer - Thursday, March 22, 2012
• Predicament: The Season Re-liveth - Wednesday, March 21, 2012
• Predicament: Time Had Forgotten About - Tuesday, March 20, 2012
• Predicament: Closing Time - Monday, March 19, 2012
• Predicament: Hasan Baharin - Sunday, March 18, 2012
• Predicament: A Pimple of my Nose - Saturday, March 17, 2012
• Predicament: What is Mike Cooking? - Friday, March 16, 2012
• Predicament: Papa Eriong - Thursday, March 15, 2012
• Predicament: Kind Words - Wednesday, March 14, 2012
• Predicament: Music and Whit 2 - Tuesday, March 13, 2012
• Predicament: Music and Whit 1 - Monday, March 12, 2012
• Predicament: What You Want to Be - Sunday, March 11, 2012
• Predicament: Father and Son - Saturday, March 10, 2012
• Liza's Life Plan - Friday, March 09, 2012
• The Colleague - Thursday, March 08, 2012
• Oh Taylor! - Wednesday, March 07, 2012
• Dena - Tuesday, March 06, 2012
• Losing My Job, Again - Monday, March 05, 2012
• A Plane to Nowhere - Sunday, March 04, 2012
• A Slave No More - Saturday, March 03, 2012
• Cirque du Soleil - Friday, March 02, 2012
• Mendocino - Thursday, March 01, 2012
• Th Coming Storm - Wednesday, February 29, 2012
• Becoming Old - Tuesday, February 28, 2012
• Ordinary Lives - Monday, February 27, 2012
• Books I Read - Sunday, February 26, 2012
• Discrimination - Saturday, February 25, 2012
• Quintessential Jokes - Friday, February 24, 2012
• The Catholic Experience - Thursday, February 23, 2012
• Promises, promises - Wednesday, February 22, 2012
• Sleepy - Tuesday, February 21, 2012
• Art for Art's Sake - Monday, February 20, 2012
• Mike's Ash Wednesday - Sunday, February 19, 2012
• Holy - Saturday, February 18, 2012
• Summer Home - Friday, February 17, 2012
• Pickpocketed - Thursday, February 16, 2012
• A Penny for a Drink - Wednesday, February 15, 2012
• My Roman Holiday - Tuesday, February 14, 2012
• Luck and Popularity - Monday, February 13, 2012
• It's Valentine's - Sunday, February 12, 2012
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• Education and Options - Saturday, February 11, 2012
• Windy Portland - Thursday, February 09, 2012
• My Job at Costco - Wednesday, February 08, 2012
• Compassion - Tuesday, February 07, 2012
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• The Loneliness of a Country Road - Friday, February 03, 2012
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•  It's almost Valentines - Monday, January 30, 2012
• Habits We Indulge Ourselves In - Sunday, January 29, 2012
• To Cruise or not to Cruise - Saturday, January 28, 2012
• Blah, Blah, Blah - Friday, January 27, 2012
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• A Gift for Valentine - Thursday, January 19, 2012
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• What is the other half doing today? - Saturday, January 14, 2012
• Mike's Bird dog Stories - Friday, January 13, 2012
• Dying - Thursday, January 12, 2012
• This Modern Life - Wednesday, January 11, 2012
• Jabberwocky - Tuesday, January 10, 2012
• Marriages and Such - Monday, January 09, 2012
• Poetry in America - Sunday, January 08, 2012
• Old Friendships - Saturday, January 07, 2012
• Clark and a whole of other things - Friday, January 06, 2012
• Being (almost) Late - Thursday, January 05, 2012
• At my Starbucks - Wednesday, January 04, 2012
• The Sandusky Affair - Tuesday, January 03, 2012
• Happy Reading 1 - Monday, January 02, 2012
• New Year 2012 - Monday, January 02, 2012
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• Goodbye Uncle Paul - Wednesday, December 28, 2011
• It's Hector - Tuesday, December 27, 2011
• Going Home - Thursday, December 22, 2011
• A Night in Copenhagen - Wednesday, December 21, 2011
• Trivia Night - Tuesday, December 20, 2011
• Paul's Novels - Monday, December 19, 2011
• Europe - Sunday, December 18, 2011
• Kimmy, my good friend - Friday, December 16, 2011
• The Sad State of my Affairs - Thursday, December 15, 2011
• Once There was a Mansion - Wednesday, December 14, 2011
• Lauren's Happy Uncle's Day - Tuesday, December 13, 2011
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