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· Wandering Heart

· Sweeter Than Wine Book Two of the Amory's

· Ring of Fire Book 2 of the McKay's

· Raining in My Heart Book One of the McKay's

· Along Came Love Book Four of the Travers Brothers

· Suspicions of the Heart

· Ask No Tomorrows-Book three of the Dream Catcher series

· Better Off Without Her

· Always Remember

· Love Rules

Short Stories
· The Far Side of Lonesome

· Distracted

· Halloween Witness

· Fast Forwarding Love

· A Special Present for James

· Going Backwards

· Helpful Tips for Parents

· Dealing With Writer's Block

· 7 Points of Writing

· Make Up A Character

· Write a Romance Now

· For the Love of Chocolate

· Why Texas

· This Christmas Thing

· Rationalizing War

· The Love Goes On

· In Answer to a Suicide

· Naughty Sally

· Beyond

· Ode to a Mockingbird

· What the Seasons Mean to Me

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· Finding my books on the net

· Update on Rita Hestand books

· 7 Book Contract with Guardian Angel Publishing

· Where Are All My Books?

· Class Act Books bought Jodi's Journey

· Where's Runaway Bride and Supicions of the Heart

· Poor Mo is coming out for the kids

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Ring of Fire Book 2 of the McKay's

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Sweeter Than Wine Book Two of the Amory's

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Ask No Tomorrows-Book three of the Dream Catcher series

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Pretend Mom

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Suspicions of the Heart

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Nick's Baby

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Raining in My Heart Book One of the McKay's

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Blogs by Rita P Hestand

Getting through the rough stuff
3/14/2009 7:23:39 PM    [ Flag as Spam or Inappropriate ]

Everyone goes through hard times. Mine was a dousey that I want to share with you.
This isn't a story, it's the truth. In January of 2006 I lost my husband. We'd been married 24 years. I was so looking forward to our Silver Anniversary. But it didn't happen. He died-of congential heart failure.

You might wonder what I'm doing talking about this with you, but I'm sure a lot of you noticed there's been a gap in my writing, and this is why. When he died, I just couldn't write romance any longer. I thought I was probably through writing it. But I had a series started and it wasn't finished. And I loved writing romance.

I wenet through all the motions but I wasn't really living my life. I was so sad that my soul mate was gone, I just couldn't write any longer.

I prayed to God that I could someday write again. I struggled with it. So finally, I just quit for a while.
I couldn't listen to music either, especially our favorites. It was just too painful.

My sorrow wasn't any worse than anyone else's. Only it felt like it was. I felt so alone, so hurt, and yes, just a little scared of facing old age without him. I wondered if these feelings would ever pass. I wondered if I would ever be able to do anything I used to enjoy.

For two years I've been pretty silent. I wrote just a little for children, not much.

I csried a lot, even at work. Do you know how hard that is to hide from others? It's humiliating to break down at your place of work. But I did, many times. No one saw me, because I hid it well.

I kept praying that my life would change for the better. I knew God had more plans, if he let me live.

I went to church, I went to eat out, alone, to the movies alone, shopping alone. I even lived alone for a while.
I relearned my independence. I learned how to look forward to each day, and give thanks.

Finally, I took a vacation, with my grandkids, to San Anotonio. I went to the Alamo again, a place I always wanted to revisit. And when I came home...I could write again.

And now, I'm back in full swing and it feels wonderful. I feel like I can't get enough done.

I wrote a book that I absolutely fell in love with, it isn't published yet, but it is at a publisher as we speak and I want you all to try it out. Not because I say so, not because I want you to spend the money but because I want to know if it touches your heart as much as it did to write it. I put everything in that book. I poured my heart out in the book and I think you'll agree with me it's got some pretty heavy stuff to be a Christian, historical, westsern, romance. It isn't preachy, but it has a presence I think you'll quickly recognize.

As soon as it comes out, I will announce it here at Author's Den. So be looking for it, because it has such a story...I can't wait to hear from YOU. I can't wait to know what you REALLY think of it.

Until then...I love you all

Rita Hestand

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More Blogs by Rita P Hestand
• Runaway Bride is Out and it's different! - Monday, September 07, 2009
•  Getting through the rough stuff - Saturday, March 14, 2009  
• RAting the books - Sunday, December 14, 2008
• Fighting City Hall - Friday, November 05, 2004
• Going back to the family table - Sunday, September 19, 2004
• Ebooks, why switch? - Saturday, September 11, 2004
• Politically Speaking? - Monday, September 06, 2004

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