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Hospice
6/14/2006 8:58:12 PM
Two deaths have hit our family in the past six months. My father in law passed in January and unexpectedly my step mother had a seizure and died just two weeks ago. My biological mother died when I was fifteen but my family kept me quite sheltered and so I never confronted her in the last gasps of life or saw her eartlhy remains once her soul left.

Yet in both deaths this year, I had the opportunity and indeed the glorious chance to be close to my loved ones as they got close to their date with destiny and to be alone with them in the first minutes after they shed their bodies.

The difference between now and thirty six years ago is the emergence of Hospice. I have found the hospice people (one group here in California and the other one in Florida) to be warm, caring, and loving. I relate them to the angels. They explain in a non preachy way the details of death and how the body and soul fight and finally give in to the inevitable. They allow for loved ones to be near to the dying or to be close by in hospice family rooms if need be.

Life is so busy and we don't always get to spend quality or quantity of time with our parents. Yet in the last days in hospice, I feel that I got to know my father in law and step mother in a new and unique way. Death is supposed to cut people away from us and yet I feel somehow bonded to those who have moved on.

A final quote would be appropriate. From the movie Arthur as Arthur's butler is lying in the hospital confronting his own mortality "Arthur, do not be afraid. Death... it is natural."


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