Blogs by Jackie Coupe
How not to talk to gay girls.
3/7/2007 4:14:47 AM
Why is it a problem to be cured?
This is going to be a mini rant.
So buckle yourself in.
I cyberchat with a few folks and two in particular have come to upset me in recent days.
You tell them you are gay and the questions start.
I accept that, and I always answer as best I can, I feel understanding is gained through knowledge and sharing.
The two men in particular could have been reading from the same script even though they are at opposite ends of the country.
*Maybe you've just never been with the right man...*
I feel its more because I've been with the right woman.
*Maybe you're just curious...*
I'm almost 30, and know myself well enough now to know what it is I truly want.
*You've never been with me...*
Every bloody time! Why is it a man feels they have to try and fix and demean what I want and like?
*Have you ever slept with a man...*
Yes, yes I have and I thoroughly didn't like it. With each of the two men I slept with. It wasn't what I wanted and never really has been.
You man peoples out there, I'm not a man-hater.
But sometimes my friendliness and openess makes people, (men), feel they need for whatever reason to take me and change me.
I have been proposed to three times.
Each time by men who I have never slept with.
On my life.
Why? The challenge? Hopefully my mates will read this blog and see in the cold light of day how daft they are.
I love all my friends. It doesn't matter to me what equipment they have, what I don't want though is the constant barrage of offers for sex by men with promises to change me.
I DON'T WANT TO BE CHANGED.
'Gay' - used to be in the dictionary next to 'really happy'
For some of us it still means the SAME thing!
Be my friend, accept what I like because I honestly do.
I'm not looking for help and guidance from blokes, I enjoy their friendship as I do with anyone regardless of what their colour is or orientation may be.
Miss Jackie Coupe
Lover of women since as long as I can remember.
PS: 'The Girls Club' is in the hands of my publisher, its a go for launch!
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