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Going to His Office Christmas Party Will Discourage Workplace Affairs
12/9/2008 10:10:23 PM
3 ways your presence at his office Christmas party can discourage a workplace affair.

In my previous post I promised to give you some other good reasons to go with your husband or boyfriend to the office Christmas party at his job --  even if you don’t suspect a workplace affair.

(See my previous post on how office Christmas parties can expose workplace affairs.)


Office Christmas parties can be breeding grounds for infidelity and extramarital affairs.

One private investigation firm found that workplace affairs are more likely to be initiated at the annual Christmas party, than at any other time of the year.  If you want to safeguard your marriage or relationship, here are 3 reasons you need to be there.

Keep His Work Spouse Relationship from Becoming a Workplace Affair

The annual Christmas party is prime time for a work spouse relationship to advance to a workplace affair. With a few drinks under his belt, your man may say or do something that could take his relationship with his work wife to the next level.  If you’re there with him, you can keep his work spouse relationship from turning into a workplace affair.

Keep Predatory Females at Bay

Make your presence known to his female co-workers and stake your claim.   If one of his workmates has been secretly admiring him all year, the office Christmas party is when she’s most likely to make her move.  Your presence will put a damper on her plans. Any of his female workmate who have designs on him, will have second thoughts about making a play for him with you there. 

Stamp Out Sex at the Office Party

It’s common for employees to sneak away from the office party to have sex.  In a survey by Trojan Condoms, 49% of office workers said they’d be willing to have sex with a fellow employee at the Christmas party if the opportunity presented itself. As long as you’re there with him, that’s one opportunity that’s unlikely to present itself.   

If you Suspect He’s Already Having a Workplace Affair

What should you do if you suspect that your husband or boyfriend is already romantically involved with someone on his job?  His office Christmas party is your best chance to find out whether or not what you suspect is true. By observing him socialize with his female co-workers, you’ll be able to tell if he’s having a workplace affair. His body language and behavior around his lover, or the way they act towards each other will give them away.  But knowing what to look for is the key. For guidelines on how to proceed and what to be alert for, get a free copy of  the tip sheet entitled “What to Look for at the Office Party if You Suspect a Workplace Affair.” E-mail with What to Look For-adb2 in the subject line.


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•  Going to His Office Christmas Party Will Discourage Workplace Affairs - Tuesday, December 09, 2008  
• His Office Christmas Party Will Expose His Workplace Affair - Friday, December 05, 2008
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