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Many Cheating Valentines Will Be Exposed by Valentine’s Day Gifts This Year
Saturday, February 09, 2008  8:41:00 PM

by Ruth Houston

Infidelity expert Ruth Houston describes how Valentine gifts which will lead to the discovery of many extramarital affairs. She also offers FREE resources to help spouses and significant others who suspect infidelity catch a cheating mate.



Americans will spend over $17 billion on Valentine's gifts this year.   A New York infidelity expert states that a significant amount of that money will be spent by cheaters buying Valentine’s Day gifts for the person with whom they’re having an affair.  

According to infidelity expert, Ruth Houston, founder of, and author of  Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, many of these cheating Valentines will be exposed by the very gifts they give, or the gifts they receive.

4 Factors Contribute to the Exposure of their Affairs

Houston , a New York infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news, says “Four things associated with the cheaters’ obligatory purchase and delivery of these Valentine’s Day gifts will contribute to the discovery of numerous extramarital affairs. 

  1. A cheating husband or cheating boyfriend MUST buy his mistress a Valentine’s Day gift.

  2. Purchasing that gift will leave a paper trail.

  3. The cheater has a 3-day period ( Feb 13 – 15)  in which he must personally deliver this gift.

  4. A cheating woman MUST arrange to be available so she can personally receive her  lover’s gift.

These four things will lead to the exposure of many cheating Valentines. 

Houston, who conducts a Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign each year.  say that Valentine’s Day cheaters are usually exposed in one of the following three ways:

The Incriminating Paper Trail

Regardless of how the cheater pays for his lover’s Valentine’s Day gift -- cash, check, or charge –  the purchase will leave a paper trail. 

Disappearing or Suspicious Gifts

Houston gives two examples of how the Valentine’s Day gift itself can indicate the existence of an affair.  “If a wife discovers a hidden Valentine’s gift and she doesn’t personally receive it on Valentine’s Day, obviously it was given to someone else.

“Gifts of jewelry that show up shortly after Valentine’s Day often expose a cheating wife or girlfriend – especially if the jewelry is engraved with sentiments of love.” 

Houston gives other examples on her website (www.InfidelityAdvice) and her blog

The Doomed Delivery of the Valentine’s Gift

“The personal delivery of these Valentines gifts on or around Valentine’s Day creates another opportunity for cheating Valentines to be exposed.” states Houston, who adds that February 13th,14th, and 15th are the best days to catch a cheating mate.

FREE Resources to Help Catch a Cheating Valentine

Houston cautions spouses and significant others who suspect infidelity and want to catch  a cheating Valentine  that knowing what to look for is the key.   She has 4 resources which can help you find tangible proof of an affair, three of which are FREE.

    • Read the article on Houston’s website ( entitled How to Catch a Cheater on Valentine’s Day. 

    • Houston’s Infidelity Blog  features special Valentine’s Day infidelity tips throughout the month of February.  Bookmark it and come back often, since new tips are posted every few days.

    • Request Houston’s FREE special report entitled 21 Ways to Tell if You Have a Cheating Mate. E- mail with  21 ways adv in the subject line.

    • Read the chapter on Gifts in Houston’s book, Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs  (Lifestyle Publications, $29.95) which covers 19 gift-related telltale signs of infidelity.  Order a copy from her website, the toll-free number 800-431-1579, or from


About Ruth Houston: 

Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of Infidelity and the author of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs, which documents practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook.

Frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news, Ruth has been quoted in USA Today, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal,  the Los Angeles Times, Newsday,  the New York Post, the Toronto Sun, Cosmopolitan, the Chicago Tribune, Reuters, Associated Press, UPI, MSN Lifestyle,  iVillage,,, and numerous other print and online media.

Ruth has also been a guest on The Today Show, CNN, Fox News, ABC News , BBC, CBC, 1010WINS, Sirius Satellite Radio, Ireland’s Late Late Show, Court TV Radio  and over 360 radio and TV talk shows worldwide.   

To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston , call 718 592-6039, or e-mail

For more information about cheating Valentines, signs of infidelity or the Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign, visit or 

How to Catch a Cheater on Valentine's Day

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