"Certain signs of infidelity typically appear AFTER Valentine´s Day, if your spouse or significant other is having an affair." says infidelity expert Ruth Houston, founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and author of "Is He Cheating on You?- 829 Telltale Signs.
Houston, who is frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news, conducts a Valentine´s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign each year. Throughout the month of February, Houston’s blogs, http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com/ and http://infidelityadvice.blogspot.com/ offer tips on how to catch cheating Valentines.
When it comes to cheating spouses and lovers, Houston, who has been researching infidelity for the past 15 years, says "Knowing what to look for is the key."
She advises anyone who suspects their spouse or significant other of infidelity to be alert for the telltale signs below, which usually show up shortly after Valentine's Day.
1. A hidden gift discovered before Valentine´s Day that disappears, but wasn´t given to you. ( If Valentine’s Day has come and gone and you didn’t get the gift, he obviously gave it to someone else.)
2. Receipts for the purchase of 2 identical gifts. (If he bought 2 heart-shaped diamond pendants and you got one, who did he give the other one to)
3. Receipts or credit card statements for candy, flowers, jewelry, lingerie you didn´t personally receive. (Who got $175 worth of lingerie from Victoria’s Secret?)
4. Sales receipts, charge slips or credit card statements for gifts that don´t correspond with the gift he gave you. (If you got flowers and candy, who did he give jewelry to?
5. A thank you note or e-mail to or from your spouse for a Valentine´s Day gift you know nothing about.
6. Gifts of a personal nature, like jewelry or lingerie, that suddenly appear after Valentine´s Day, which she attempts to pass off as items she purchased for herself. ( Ask her to show you the sales receipt for that bracelet she’s suddenly been wearing everyday.)
7. Restaurant receipts or charge slipsdated February 13th,14th,15th for meals that didn´t include you.
8. Credit card receipts for a hotel stay dated the day before, the day after, or on Valentine´s Day. (Does the time stamp correspond with the time he or she was missing in action? )
9. Telephone or cell phone bills, or calls on his cell phone log showing suspicious calls made early morning or late evening on Valentine´s Day.
© copyright 2007-2008 Ruth Houston, founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com
To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert.gmail.com
Don’t Confront the Cheater Without Additional Proof
Houston warns that suspected cheaters should never be confronted solely on the basis of the telltale signs above. "You need to build an airtight case against the cheater, which means getting additional proof,” says Houston.
There Will ALWAYS Be Corroborating Signs
“Signs of infidelity never appear in isolation. There are ALWAYS multiple telltale signs. Even an experienced cheater leaves subtle signs behind. But most of them are subtle and easy to overlook. If your spouse is really cheating on you, once you know what to look for, you’ll find numerous corroborating signs. Knowing what to look for is the key.”
More Information About Signs of Infidelity
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston offers a FREE Infidelity Report entitled 21 Ways to Tell if You Have a Cheating Mate. To request a copy, e-mail InfidelityInfo.gmail.com with the words "21 Ways – advn" in the subject line.
Houston´s book, Is He Cheating on You?- 829 Telltale Signs (Lifestyle Publications, $29.95) covers practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Most of the signs in the book apply to both cheating women and cheating men. Available from www.IsHeCheatingBook.com or Amazon.com or 1-800-431-1579. Click here to order now.
The e-book version of Is He Cheating on You?- 829 Telltale Signs (Lifestyle Publications, $37) sold through http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html b has a special section for men called Is SHE Cheating?
For more information on cheating spouses and lovers, signs of infidelity or extramarital affairs, visit:
http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com
http://ishecheatingonyou.blogspot.com/
http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com/
http://FREEInfidelityTipSheets.blogspot.com
About Ruth Houston:
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of Is He Cheating on You?– 829 Telltale Signs which covers practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. She has been researching infidelity for over 15 years.
Frequently called on by the media to comment on popular infidelity issues in the news, Houston has been quoted in USA Today, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, the New York Daily News, Cosmopolitan, the New York Post, the Chicago Tribune, FoxNews.com, ABCNews.com, msnbc.com, Reuters, the Associated Press, UPI and numerous other print and online media.
Houston has also appeared on The Today Show, Good Morning America, CNN, Fox & Friends, Fox News, The Morning Show with Mike and Juliet, BBC, CBC and over 480 other radio and TV shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, New Zealand, Australia, Africa, and the Caribbean.
To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert.gmail.com |
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