A Note To My Anonymous E-Mailer...definately NOT a poem
by Kristian L Mahrling-Harding
Sunday, June 09, 2002
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Yes..I posted this under 'crime'. Harrassment is..in most states, against the law.
Your first e-mail, though disturbing and disgusting, i decided to ignore, in hopes that you would just go away. but now, after a few more..all i am is pissed off!
I don't feel the need to defend myself, too often..but i will start by clarifying a few things...
1. No! I am not a slut! regardless of what you may think my more adult writings, infer...i am not having "sex" with the multitudes on authors den, or anywhere else.
2. NO! i am not a whore. of babylon or anywhere else. had i realized..in my early years..that i could actually get paid for having sex..you may have had a point...but i always thought of it as a gift..with a partner i believed i was in love with...(and still do)
3. Yes..i am a sinner. BFD..aren't we all! i don't see any marks of crucifiction on the hands and feet..etc..of any common man or woman. as far as i am aware.."Perfect" died over 2000 years ago and was resurected, for the sake of all sinners. me included!
4.No..you're absolutely right..i do not attend a "church" i abhore hypocracy and i cannot in good concience attend an organization that does not accept all people or their philosophies. but i will challenge you on any ground to shake the faith i carry in my heart..and YOU will lose.
5. WHOM, i choose to give my heart to..is my and only my business. if it is rejected..or if i have been mislead..then that is my short coming and still..NONE OF YOUR CONCERN. last time i looked at my drivers license i was well past the age of consent or the need for a keeper.
6. you threaten my family....not a wise move. i am an even tempered woman most of the time...but i assure you..one time you spread your viral diseased, sickness to my family, my friends or my loved ones..i will promise you from the depth of my being...i will have your sorry ass hunted down and show you exactly how the phrase..'hell hath no fury..' first got started. i hope you have a prayer for mercy....you'll need it!
7. You say that you are "the watch tower". making known the evil in my writing...well if you're so damned apalled....QUIT FREAKING READING ME! sounds like you need to heal thyself, first!
AND NEVER...say you're doing this out of 'LOVE'
love is patient..and kind...and NEVER judgemental.
(don't you really read your scriptures?)
8. Your comment about needing a real man to keep me in my place....is not only offensive...but laughable.
i have a real man, in my life...we may be only able to spend limited time together,but the source of our relationsnip is based on mutual respect. and because of that love and respect, there is probably NOTHING, i would not give my best effort to accomplishing for him. i don't expect anything in return...but i recieve a great deal from him.
i was once in a relationship where the poor fool thought that to spare his fist, would spoil the broad...WRONG! it made me tough...and it made me defiant. god help the man that EVER lays a hand on me again in that way. there is NO excuse, for abuse.
and your words abuse my right to convey myself in an adult and professional manner...but i have news for ya.....BITE ME!
finally...i have blocked you from my e-mails...should you find your way around them again..i have alerted the internet police and they are monitoring my incoming mail. no worries though, it is only a small cell...and i seem to remember that even some of christs deciples spent their time in jail. worry more how you will stand in judgement..remember that passage??? judge not, as ye are judged... MAN! i'll pray for ya!
*to all my friends....if you are having the same problem by some jerk known only as his e-mail...godswatchtower.cnet.com....it is a bogus e-mail and he is now under investigation for harrassment and misuse of the internet.
becareful...and never let anyone make you feel less, because they don't share your opinion...yours are as valid and important as anyones.
hugs and love....k
ps...sorry i had to bring it to this forum...but whew! am i hot!
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|Reviewed by kimberly fry (Reader)
|you go girl|
|Reviewed by Deanna Jones (Reader)
|I see now why Kaci's comment may have hit a chord with you. The guy emailing you obviously has problems, and you have a right to write whatever you want. (I have been reading your poety--it is quite good.) Just realize that Kaci is not this guy, and labels don't restrict us, especially since we can post our work unlabeled in other places. When that freedom is gone, I'll be right there beside you complaining, but until then we should all try to get along. Write on, m'aam--you have my respect.|
|Reviewed by Kathy (Aislin) Bailey
|krissy, sorry you felt that you had to defend yourself this (most likely) man. this person needs to learn of the law of return. what ye send out will return threefold. but, you did let this person get under your skin and raise your ire when you should be balancing and centering. this person is not worth the worry.
love you and blessed be
|Reviewed by Maria Lupinacci
WOW!!!! This is soooo powerful, and strikes such a chord in me. I hope you don't mind me commenting, as we don't really know eachother yet, but I have just been having a sort of the same problem, but with my site. I wrote a poem called Ecstasy, and this person thought I wrote it about him!!!! Why??? I have no idea!!! Well that started a whole mess of e-mails, anyway I am so glad you alerted the authorities. I am really glad that you did this letter!!!!!! God I love it, and I felt very empowered myself reading it!!!!!
I am sorry you had to experience this, I know how un-nerving it can be, but I am really glad you wrote this!!!!:o)
|Reviewed by Amor Sabor
|I am sorry that you have to go through this crap...and I hope that a good end will come of it. People like that are sick and try to spread a contagious fear into others because they themselves are cowards. Take no chances...now that the authorities are on it there will be relief and hopefully you will not let it affect your writing in the least. What you have to say as an individual and an artist is worth more than a thousand of those punks. I too, am with you.
|Reviewed by E T Waldron
|Great comeback Krissy...If anyone can handle it you can...just sorry you had to be bothered with it...I have had some in the past but not for a long time I'm happy to say....hang in there you'll defeat the jerk!|
|Reviewed by Marilyn Seray
|That's tellin' him/her. Glad you took a stand, hope everyone that is harrassed would do the same. Excellent write.|
|Reviewed by Marilyn Seray
|Oh sweetheart, god we have all been going through some s---- lately.., ahh? God, I am so sorry..! You are one of the most kindest sensitive, tolerant,good hearted, open minded, creative, light filled goddesses I know..We Celts have a thing in our blood that only comes through the highlands of don't tread too much. I am sending you so much good thoughts today. God if it were not for you, who knows what would have happened to me..! Arch angels know many claim to be of the true light, but they are false teachers. They "resist" true light and true light is within you, sweetheart. I love you so much and you are in my life for a reason.I am to learn many things from you. So the student is ready and the other "ignorant" student can take a hike.
(((HUGS)))!!!!!Love you bunches...
Your goddess sister, Jo
|Reviewed by Sharon Williamson (Reader)
I am so sorry that some fool is getting their joolies at your expense. You are a strong woman and some see that as a threat.
I wonder why some think it is their place to
become judge and jury of anothes life...my opinion is they have no real life of their own.
Your words have always been an inspiration to me and many others.I am honored to call you my friend.
I am concerned about this because you mention threats. Please be careful. My thoughts and prayers are with you as well as all of my support.
Take care my friend...if you need a shoulder I am here.
With love and respect,
|Reviewed by Tomas Ughdair (Reader)
Sorry to be out of action in your time of need,getting access is very difficult at the moment.
Just in case any authors or readers are not aware Kristian L Mahrling, has recently had her name inscribed as a supporter of religious and racial tolerance,and is the worthy recipient of a certificate to that effect.
I myself am proud she has chosen me to be her Friend, and I am sure that who ever has chosen to insult her integrity,are about to discover,that her tolerance is a sign of strength,and woe betide them if she should ever decide to bite back.
I know Krissy wants me to stay out of this as I am not reknown for my tolerance.
And that I have the utmost confidence Krissy can handle this situation in her own inimitable way.
But I would ask them to ponder on my motto if they may.
" Honi soit qui mal y pense "
|Reviewed by Tiana
|Krissy honey, you tell'em! There are a lot of sick people out there and they got you where it hurts, your love ones. I hope this person is caught on stopped. Kepp writing your beautiful words, hun!
luv ya girl,
|Reviewed by William Perez (Reader)
|kick ass shit Please consider going back to god|
|Reviewed by (Reader)
|my goodness you must be annoyed krissy as this is a long bit compared to most your poems.
Mate...I don't blame you one bit for being upset and you should rightly show that stuff to the police or your server as they can trace it I am certain.Do make sure you do it Krissy don't just ignore it or leave it at this...people like that wont stop unless the law takes a hand in it.I also have had a couple of nasty things come my way lately from some idiot but that was due to my support of (2 POEMS)and account of the black races struggle for freedom ,however, I was un-nerved a bit to get it as the' K.K.K. ' was mentioned.(I am looking over my shoulder from now on due to that).
Don't let them ever stop you writing Krissy you are one of the best female writers around and your poems will last long after you have gone unlike the pathetic wimps e-mails (or notes,letters or comments).They won't stop me writing on any subject.
HUGS and an especially long hug this time because I know you need it.
Kay P M-Dev.....
|Reviewed by Dens Dreamweaver (Reader)
|There is nothing that gets me worse than someone who uses religion as a way to harass, abuse etc. Just curious, are you familiar with Cyberangels? Often I have referred people to them.. http://www.cyberangels.org/ when they are bein stalked, or harassed etc. on line.
Love and Light
|Reviewed by Sue Hess
|sounds like the same on who harassed me at y-p krissy, i always thought i knew who it was (u remember her?) but maybe not. you made ur point wonderfully. i need your strength right now, i am so drained and empty but sleep will have to do instead. love sue|
|Reviewed by Josephine Bohen
|Articulate, well layed out, you speak here for many. I hope and pray this stops for you and all else fighting same.