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Recent Reviews for Sherry Russell BCBT BCETS

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 8/8/2003 1:09:32 PM
Hi Sherry, I wanted to let you know your book is helping many of my families. I'm a social worker. I really like the way its written. I have found it a difficult task to get people to read a book on grief but I've had luck getting people to read yours. Word among my families travels fast. I wish you much luck and hope you get the book out to more people. Thank you, Ron

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 8/7/2003 7:10:42 PM
Hi Sherry, I stumbled upon your page by reading the 'news' section of author's den. It is evident that we have a lot in common as I too have written a book about loss and the grief process entitled, "When Death Comes a Knockin'." I look forward to reading your excerpt and then maybe your entire book. Congratulations on your success. Keep the Faith! VeeJay

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 2/21/2003 10:41:53 AM
I have recommended this book to several of my patients dealing with life threatening diseases. The feed back had been very complimentary. An insightful look at grief.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 1/22/2003 11:09:00 AM
The process of grief and the associated expectations take on new meaning through Sherry Russell's book CONQUERING THE MYSTERIES AND LIES OF GRIEF. It is a revelation to many and a well-needed one for friends and families to understand the full impact of intimate loss. Ms. Russell is explicit in her breakdown of grief cycles and enables, thereby, the process of healing through awareness. Though there are many well-intentioned caregivers at the onset of grief, little is understood until one becomes familiar with the full psychological impact of major loss. Ms. Russell takes care to fully familiarize and give credence to the major cycles. Through her work false notions and expectations will fall aside. This book is well recommended for grievers and caregivers alike. ... Stephanie S. Sawyer, author FACING ME

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 1/12/2003 12:22:48 PM
A doctor friend gave me this book to read. He wanted my honest opinion since he was recommending it to several of his patients. I wasn't familiar with this author or the book and wasn't expecting to read anything new on this subject. The book does offer a new thinking on the subject. Ms. Russell writes with emotion and direction. I'd recommend this book for several reasons. The first is the book is not a "do it this way and you will be fine". Instead,the book offers information, suggestions, interviews, and most of all hope for the future.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 1/11/2003 8:25:52 AM
I will be introducing your book to my students this semester. In reading through your site I also noticed several other colleges using it. I can understand why. This book is filled with great information about "real" grief and "real" people. So many times educators forget about teaching what to expect in "real" life situations. I will be contacting you about an appearance and book signing. Thanks for writing this book.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 1/9/2003 2:52:28 PM
This book is a new take on grief. It reorders our perceptions of how grief effects us. I have read many inspirational and self help books and this one is one I can say will helkp many people no matter what the loss may be. Ms. Russell blends in the throny path grief takes along with the hope of human nature.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 12/14/2002 9:44:57 AM
This book puts tools to helpyour grief at your fingertips. Ms. Russell clearly provides beneficial ways of helping yourself all through the book. This is a very non-judgemental look at grief. Ms. Russell does not ask you at any time to step outside of yur beliefs. Actually the way the book is written she gets you to be more undersanding of the beliefs of others. Thanks for this great little helper!

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 11/28/2002 1:21:44 PM
Working as a bereavement counselor, I can tell you there is an assortment of books out there offering advice and guidance. This book, “Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief” was the very first book I’ve read that made even me examine my losses in my life more closely. The way it is written it is as if you knew me and were talking directly to me. I also noted the soberly well explained self help points that someone could actually follow and benefit from. I furthermore really appreciated the chapter on Hallucinations. Once again, I felt like you personally knew me as well as many of my clients with the way you approached that complicated subject matter. Not only did this book hit me where it was most meaningful but also it has helped me help those I counsel. I have suggested this book many times since reading it and will continue to do so. Hard subject to cover but you did it in a profound and effective way.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 11/16/2002 3:59:51 PM
Sherry, you have done an outstanding job with this book. You have helped me deal with my father's difficult decision regarding cancer treatment and I can't thank you enough for that. As you know, I also purchased a book for my good friend, Terri, whose mother recently died. You are truly a healer, Sherry, and very much needed. Thank you.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 11/8/2002 1:18:03 PM
Touched my heart, November 2, 2002 Reviewer: Debbie Jacobs from Memphis, TN Being a young widow myself, Sherry touched the bottom line as to how you feel, how others think you should feel and just knowing that it is okay to grieve the way you want. Great job. Hope to see more from her.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 11/8/2002 1:15:26 PM
Finally, November 4, 2002 Reviewer: robbie sanders from florida I just received the book Friday and read it over the weekend. Finally, someone gets to the point. As a medical student that will be graduating next year this book will be a mandatory read for my staff. I felt many of the feelings described in the book when I suffered a very difficult loss two years ago. I wish I knew two years ago what I know now. This gets to the point and deals with issues in very understandable terms. Thanks to Ms. Russell I have a real tool that will help me help others.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 10/22/2002 10:12:46 AM
Bravo! Thank you for telling it like it is. I love the title! Your writing made me feel like you were talking directly to me. I have not lost a loved one but I have had many personal and professional loses. You spoke to those hurts.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 9/21/2002 6:37:43 AM
by Cher King Thank you for your exceptionally powerful book, Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief. Your outstanding offering is just what I personally needed to read, and it stands apart from other books I have read on the subject--especially in its immediate applicability to my own life and to understanding the needs of others. You have delivered an immensely comprehensible, easily readable discussion, including an unusually well-chosen selection of relevant research and personal experiences. It is much more difficult to write concisely, with simplicity and in a refreshing conversational manner. You have managed to accomplish this, while packing in significant research, related theories, actual experiences of your own and so many others. Hope and healing reside on every page. I feel I can pinpoint and address areas within me and my life that have been made much more accessible to me through "Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief." Sherry, thank you for the obviously extensive education, experience, dedication, and life-well-lived that have gone into this superior work on an issue we will all face in our lives. Sincerely, Cher King Islamorada, Florida Keys

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 8/13/2002 12:25:25 PM
Ms. Russell, your book is a necessity for every library in the world. Grief and loss is not demographic. Every grieving soul will benefit from your work. God Bless.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 8/9/2002 8:50:34 AM
My church is sponsoring me on a trip to South America to help families with grief and loss as part of our foriegn mission program. I must have this book. I believe it will be much better than anything I have read. I hope it will be available in Spanish.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 8/9/2002 8:11:00 AM
It is about time someone addressed the real issues dealing with grief and loss. A must for every physician's home and office. Thank you for this book.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 8/7/2002 11:01:29 AM
The excerpt gave me chills. You have a written a much needed book that will benefit many. Handling grief is different for everyone and knowing that others have felt your same pain lifts a huge burden. Nobody has all of the answers, but sharing can be a great help. I wish you a lot of success. I look forward to reading the entire book.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 8/7/2002 9:38:27 AM
Having experienced similar 'episodes' during the loss and re-finding of my own son, I can identify 100% with the paranormal events that occur. I hope your book is a huge success. P.E. Blais "Resurrecting Paul"

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 8/5/2002 2:46:37 PM
"creating a new normal" I like that...good luck..looks like a book everyone should read.

Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief (Book) - 7/11/2002 6:34:55 AM
This book sounds like "A Must Read" to me...I anxiously await its arrival! Victoria Taylor Murray' "The Lambert Series"

Family bringing in family (Short Story) - 5/14/2004 8:30:56 AM
Hip, Hip, Hoorah!!!!! Sherry, I am ecstatic for you, and I was busting at the seams over this candid portrayal of the delivery room expectation. Dallas Cowboy cheerleader, indeed! I could just spot your endeavors. You're absolutely right. We, as mothers, share something the world cannot understand, and I'm so glad you were able to be there for Tracy. You have alot of courage, woman!, to stand through that one. Your article is bautifully written, and, as always, is uplifting and advantageous to every reader whether they are mothers or not. We are all very happy for you and Tracy and Samantha as well as the whole family. Congratulations! Stevie

Family bringing in family (Short Story) - 5/14/2004 8:27:04 AM
so happy for your daughter and her little one! congrats to you! wonderful story of "Family bringing in Family!" (((HUGS))) and much love, your friend in Tx., Karen Lynn. :D

Dealing with Grief in the Holiday Season (Article) - 11/21/2009 6:41:15 PM

What is a psychological autopsy? (Article) - 1/26/2009 1:53:10 AM
This is an excellent and informative write. You have contributed a great deal of information here that is well worth reading.

Moving forward through heartache (Article) - 7/15/2006 6:23:01 PM

Loss of Self (Article) - 8/30/2005 2:19:25 AM
Very comprehensive and useful article

Coping with Natural Disasters (Article) - 8/30/2005 2:14:45 AM
Very useful and interesting article.

Finding emotional harmony in tragic times (Article) - 8/30/2005 1:10:51 AM
Very good artcicle. Excellent points.

Coping with Natural Disasters (Article) - 1/6/2005 5:22:23 AM
well said

Tsunami (Article) - 1/6/2005 5:21:44 AM
poignant read

Coping with Natural Disasters (Article) - 12/14/2004 5:25:34 PM
Wow This is alot of good information and help to those dealing with these things. That tree part there stand me up really touched me as something that happened during a big wind storm in Henderson Nv. I don't live in these comditions but these are really good suggestions and explainations for any natural disaster. Thank You for taking the time to write this extremely helpful article. I really appreciate your time and all that you put into this. Have A really good day everyday. Tracey

Alzheimer's: Sinking Memories – Sinking Hearts (Article) - 12/1/2004 6:47:00 AM
You write as one who is deeply involved with a suffererer. When I was recently diagnosed as suffering from dementia, it tore my world apart. However with a loving wife and two daughters I have managed to start writing and now have a self-book on memory to commend to Dementia and Altzheimer sufferers. I am sure a cure is not so far away. Till then bear with us and never forget even on the days i put the kettle in the fridge, that I love you all. Miller

Hurricanes (Article) - 11/5/2004 1:13:32 PM
(((sherry))) i've been through remnants--camille in 1969 (i was 10) and alicia in 1983. i remember the winds and rain...i can't imagine a full tilt storm. the anxiety, the uncertainty, the all out fear...glad everything worked out okay, and that last line--you go, girl! continue to look for rainbows in the midst of tornadoes (or hurricanes) :) (((HUGS))) and love, karla. :)

What is a psychological autopsy? (Article) - 8/24/2004 2:19:49 PM
This is an excellent article. The story by Karyl Beal moved me to tears. I have experienced pain in my life but none as profound and deep as this. How any mother can survive the loss of her child in such a way, is beyond me. I am quite sure that the 'emotional autopsy' performed, helped her to come to terms with why it happened. I have some personal experience with depression, after my daughter was brutally raped at 14. I have great sympathy with people suffering this affliction. It is almost impossible to describe the darkness you live with. Thanks again. Chanti

Moving forward through heartache (Article) - 6/10/2004 12:52:33 PM
Sherry, This is a good article. Broken hearts abound, don't they? These are some real good, solid suggestions.

Moving forward through heartache (Article) - 6/9/2004 4:46:28 PM
Sherry: Your expertise is a true anchor in a devastating storm. Without articles such as this one, and your article "Loss of a Dream" as well as "Trust" I'd be a true basket case. Once again, hope is established when others of expertise and wisdom point the devastated in the correct direction to believing there is a better time ahead. Thank you. Stephanie Sawyer, author "Wherever You May Be"

Loss of a dream (Article) - 5/15/2004 1:16:59 AM
A powerful write, ty for sharing the good advise I will point this article out to a few friends who need to read it, I am certainly glad I did... God Bless Michelle~

Help for waiting in the ICU for a loved one (Article) - 4/7/2004 1:03:45 PM
good advice you have here, sherry. this should help a lot of people who are facing this very thing right now; such a stressful time such as it is! i have been there, more than once; NOT fun! (NOT me, but my mom and also my grandma; they've been in i.c.u. more than once; both have since passed on, unfortunately, but i remember the fear and helplessness i felt while waiting at the hospital!) (((HUGS))) and much love, your friend in tx., karen lynn. :(

The Grief behind the Homeless Door (Article) - 3/17/2004 9:19:22 AM
The effectiveness you have, Sherry, in getting the needed message across is outstanding. Too many of the general public are unaware of the mindset and predicament of the homeless, and these oft victimized members of society are too often outcast as unworthy. You have brought an unwavering light to the foolheartiness of the stigma of much of society's opinion on the homeless. There is just too much scoffing 'out there', and, from one who has spent time in a shelter, I can vouch for the accuracy of what you pinpoint. Bravo to you! Stephanie S. Sawyer

The Grief behind the Homeless Door (Article) - 3/11/2004 12:32:00 PM
As a Nurse working with the mentally ill/chemicaly dependent I often see just what you have written about. It's sad how few people see how difficult some people's lives are. Many are quick to judge that which they know little about. I know, I hurt for the sadness and fear that not having a home brings. If this article raises the awareness to 1 person the world will be a better place. I do believe this will speak to more then 1 thankfully. Good writing, on a much needed subject Sandi

The Grief behind the Homeless Door (Article) - 3/8/2004 4:54:36 PM
What a wonderful article. Homelesness is an evil that should not be necessary. A little help from those of us who have security can mean the world to those seeking it. I loved the idea of the cleaning bucket - it reminded me of when I was preparing to move into my first home - cleaning products were at the very top of my list of needs. Washing the windows and scrubbing the floor turned that house into my home. I am inspired. Thank you!

Grief and Four Paw Love (Article) - 2/5/2004 10:23:08 AM
You are, as always, absolutely right, Sherry. One never forgets the huge loss of the first pet who works his way into our hearts. To this day, over twenty five years later, I can clearly divulge all the details on my family losing Max (my husband is only TOO tired of hearing of this!), and I hope one day to see Max over that Rainbow Bridge too! What a lovely story, and I am grateful for one as sensitive as you are in painting these pictures and understandings for the public eye. Now, on the next one include birds! - Love ya - Stevie

Grief and Four Paw Love (Article) - 2/5/2004 9:40:20 AM
I wish more folks read these articles in AD, Sherry. You raise some profound thoughts here. I've grieved over every pet loss I've ever had; and I've never been ashamed of it; and it's something that any animal lover must do - in their own way - and, they should never be ridiculed for it.

Trust (Article) - 1/8/2004 6:51:27 PM
Excellent article, Sherry. I enjoyed it. Best regards, Leland

Trust (Article) - 1/7/2004 6:57:48 PM
This is one of the MOST profound articles I have read in a long, long time, and I can say that it will be used in great ministry, especially for the downcast and brokenhearted. You outdo yourself, Sherry. There are mighty chords struck within - not Beethoven - which have not been struck by any musician either - as mightily as you just struck them. These are chords that demand attention, and that is the very purpose of the author. I salute you completely, and more. You don't know the fullness of your own power in your words. Stephanie

Love, Loss, and the Holidays (Article) - 12/9/2003 6:24:35 AM
Great article, Sherry, and lots of fabulous advice. Holidays aren't easy for widows and widowers - even those who have remarried. Julie :)

Love, Loss, and the Holidays (Article) - 12/7/2003 7:04:43 PM
Once again, Sherry, you unveil great wisdom, and your readers can only profit through closely adhering to your expertise. Your insights over well-intentioned expectations and the mounting stresses ignited through them can easily be alleviated if your words will be followed. It is too easy, as you portray, to get swallowed up in giving way to the 'ought to's and what one deems to be necessary role-playing. However, knowing one's boundaries and utilizing abilities for negotiating emotional turmoil is essential for a successful holiday season when faced with major loss at a crucial time of year. Thank you for a wonderful article! Stephanie S. Sawyer

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 7/26/2009 11:07:28 AM
Awesome! God Bless! JMD

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 12/14/2004 5:29:18 PM
This is Beautiful and Very much needed for me today. Thank You so much for these comforting and inspiring words. I really really like this Thank You. Much Love and Happiness Always, Tracey

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 3/11/2004 6:07:21 PM
What an uplifting and inspirational message. It's wonderful to that there are others out there to help us through, all we have to do is ask for it. Thank you for sharing this lovely poem with us. Debbie

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 11/22/2003 11:42:47 AM
What a wonderful message!! And 'House of Hope' is the perfect foil. Got more strength than we know, don't we? Up to us to use it...but a little help from our friends -- a n y o n e -- doesn't hurt. Bless you for writing this. Phyllis <3

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 11/9/2003 1:26:30 AM
I found this poem to be very inspirational and I like the strong statement of hope. Your poem is lovely and flows very well.

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 11/4/2003 4:06:50 PM
poignant work

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 10/18/2003 4:01:29 AM
Excellent write....BHUWAN

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 6/22/2003 4:55:54 PM
An amazing poem by an amazing woman! Love ya bunches, Victoria

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 2/18/2003 1:12:36 PM
Brilliant poem filled with compassion. Enjoyed it!

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 2/14/2003 10:13:47 AM
Wonderful poem. Enjoyed it and needed the inspiration it offered. Thanks and I look forward to reading more.

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 2/13/2003 11:02:15 AM
Your beautiful words bring a sense of hope to people that feel they have none. Great job.

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 2/12/2003 2:15:58 PM
Sherry, this is so poignant. I have printed it out and it's here in my office. I pick it up and read it, marveling at your prose. Very eloquent. Thanks!

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 2/11/2003 12:44:46 PM
Sherry, the need to nurture others is what goes on. That makes a lot of sense now. Through nuturing others we can find our way and heal ourselves. Each time we help we grow stronger. Very well written. Bill Murray

The House up on Hope Avenue (Poetry) - 2/11/2003 12:10:17 PM
Love this one.