Become a Fan
Ladies it's simple really
By Tony J. May Sr.
Sunday, August 27, 2006
Rated "R" by the Author.
And now let us hear from ... a man who has no knowledge of what he's about to say .... tonight he will totally not tell us about women, let's give him a warm welcome ... now would also be a good time to go to the bathroom, take a smoke break ...
Ladies it's just this simple....
Women to me are beautiful, the plain, simple, long and short is, and they fascinate me. So many things about a woman are of interest to me.
I know I will never understand them, but even the fact that they will forever elude my comprehension only adds to the mystic.
Now let me be honest. there are some women I avoid, or I don't have contact with, and no it's nothing criminal, no restraining orders, or irate boyfriends, but specifically if for whatever reason a woman or I decide we are incompatible, that is reason enough for me to accept that situation as fact, and give her and myself room to exist in our own space.
Let me further say that just because a woman is of interest me I don't feel obligated to intrude, or invade her space, I don't have to introduce myself, or even talk to her. I might say "hi" or pass her and not speak at all.
I am at this point in my life, in love. It is a wonderful experience, and I am learning that women and love finds us, we as people (men and women) don't find love. It comes to us in it's own time, it is also a fact that we may only know when it's time not to be in a specific relationship, and may have to learn when and how to establish or start one, isn't that odd?
Anyway back to the point, and believe me there is a point, just stay with me. As I said I'm in love. She is a wonderful woman; I'm not just saying that, she's not even in the room. She is close by, and I like that, she's good at helping me spell stuff, and she's a good sport about me asking too, I ask, "honey how do you spell occur", and she tells me how she thinks the word is spelled and after due time she say's "there's a dictionary on top of the computer", of course I know that , I say to myself, "but I love the sound of your voice", see I told you women fascinate me.
Still my woman wouldn't appreciate the fact that other women intrigue me the way that they do, maybe no woman would, and I value our relationship and her happiness, so I haven't mentioned this predisposition I have, to her, and I divulge it here only because I know you can keep a secret.
I would like to think that men and women are partners in the adventure of life. Both seeking to enrich their lives and sustain the existence of mankind. But I know the truth is, we guy’s just really want to see the game, and ladies tend to think that game time is the perfect time to do anything other than watch the game. Which brings me to the key point of the difference between men and women, which is, we see things differently? Which is perfect and the way it should be ...except it also leads us to place value on different aspects of our existence, (... more later ... come back and I'll tell you more, ok? Also edit ...BTW she's not feeling well, let me check on her.)
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|Reviewed by Poetess of The Soul Sheila G
|What a Sweetie U R Tony ~ Honest and to the point, SOoo let me ask you... Do you like your women indepedent or dependent on YOU! manyly! not All the time... I find your take on Women very interesting as I do your mind!
Thanks for giving us credit, I shall write of men soon! and my appreciation to them! I hope your women/partner is feeling alot better, and for you to check on her-Shows you care deeply!
To know she willingly helps you with a smile, *( at times, My dict. is above on my PC too, but sometimes, you don't want to take the time to find the tough word at that time) hearing the sound of her voice is a great reason! Partnership is what I feel should exist! To Listen and to really care and try to have Patience when moody times are near. Men have their times of rotten disposition, many women know this and let them be, women just ask the same from a man! Good luck on your Life Long Journey of Friendship, Love and Parntership ETc. In that order I venture to say! Glad you wrote this and you wrote it clearly and distinctly! Enjoy! Your day ~ She is lucky to have a caring man at her feet/heart and mind! As I'm sure you feel the same at this time! Love and WArmest of Blessings my friend ~ Warmly, Sheeeoxo