Suggestions can be helpful
Demands will never rule
Control lies in decisions
That derived from Cosmic School!
Right now, you can break away from every control panel except for your own personal affaires, with an attitude of availability, if asked to help. Remain consciously aware if a, real, need for your assistance arises, and be willing to pitch in.
Try learning how to let go of what is just spinning your wheels and going nowhere, and eventually, you will discover the art of detecting those traps before the wheels ever have a chance to start spinning. I have found that the minute I notice I am repeating the same words over again, to the same people, or something I am trying to accomplish just will not flow in the direction I am wanting it to, that these are my signals to back away and get, quietly, resolved to a, possibly, whole new approach, even if it is to simply remain quiet and still.
When you have remembered this amazing nature, you may then feel a new freedom that flows peacefully with the faith of knowing everything has been under Divine Pure Control all along.
You are Pure Control! Let Divine Pure Control take the wheel!