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Relaltionships for those widowed,divorced
By Robert B Blackmer
Sunday, November 30, 2008

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WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIGE WITH PART 1

So you are single and never married, are divorced or widowed and you want to enter into a relationship or marriage with another person.

Perhaps this is the time for you both to learn more about each other. You may be young or old which does not matter. What matters is how much you communicate and talk about your lives as children and beyond for your own happiness in the future.

Here are just a few things to talk about.

Did your parents love you? Were you an only child? Did you have brothers or sisters? (How many?) Were either of you a first-born or down the line? Did you both like playing with other children? Was either of you shy, timid, or frightful around other children? Extraverted or Introverted? What age did you start working?
Starting work at a young age may be a sign of ambition. How were your grades in school?

Add to this list anything you both can use to be compatible for your future

Infatuation may not provide a happy future, but compatibility might.

Do a lot of talking and compare the results with each other. Communicate, communicate and communicate some more.

Go for it, you can do it.

Part 2 will cover your negative side so look for it.


http://www.outskirtspress.com/robertbruce









 

WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH PART 1

 

So you are single either by choice, divorced or widowed and you want to enter into a relationship with another person.

However, you may be young or old does no matter, but what you need to know about the other person should be of great concern to you.  After all it is your happiness that is at stake.

 

As a child, how did your family treat you both?  Did they truly love you?  Perhaps you were an orphan and lived in foster homes and for some reason or another you were not loved. Think of your situation now.  How has any of this affected your life or the person you are interested in?  Maybe one had a great life but the other one did not.  As a for instance, what if one of you is extraverted and the other is introverted.  Perhaps this would mean you could have a problem by one person not wanting to be actively sociable and the other wanting to be.  We now have a conflict arising that could prove to be devastating in the future if you were in a relationship or marriage.

 

The same could hold true if one was first born and the other was last born, or if one had brothers and sisters and the other never had any.  Could this perhaps mean being raised as a single child a conflict could arise if the child was an introvert and did not want to be around others?

 

Was one person timid and shy or frightful around other children and the other was not?  Is this situation carried forward to now?  How does the timid, shy or frightful child relate to other people now?  Has he or she changed?

 

Is one person a loner without friends and the other has friends?  Perhaps the loner would be a drag on the other one if he or she were still that way.

 

Did one person participate in school sports or other activities as a child and the other never did?  Has the person who never did play sports change over the years and is he or she more sociable?  The story is one person loved sports and wanted to watch all the football games and the other did not or he or she liked to go to the games and the other didn’t.  One person could very well be left out if they were not asked to participate.  The same would hold true for hunting or fishing, or jogging, or any other sport.

 

Was one person raised in a family where the mother or father was an alcoholic or drug addict?  Chances are if one was this way that person may resort to this style of living.  Question their life since childhood to find out.  He or she may not make a good relationship or marriage partner. 

 

Is the person you are interested in divorced and if so how many times?  Why was he or she divorced?  Was this person to blame and why? Was there much bitterness and does it exist now?  This is just something to consider before you make a sound judgment and the right choice.  Carefully consider your options before proceeding with a relationship or marriage.  Were there children from both sides of the fence and how would the children get along.  It does not matter what age they are at this point.  If they will not get along then there will be trouble in the future.

 

Is the person you are interested in widowed?  How long has he or she been widowed? If it has been a long time then perhaps you need to ask why?   Has either one of you become very independent?  How would this affect your relationship or marriage?  Would one person be very independent one and the other not like it?  Just some questions for you to consider and a live a happy life rather than a miserable one.

 

Part 2 coming soon. 

 

Robert Bruce is the author of 2 books and the co-author of one book; “Creating Your Own Way To Happiness.”

He has over 1,000 speeches/workshops and has appeared on radio and TV.

 

 

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WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIGE WITH – PART 1

 

So you are single and never married, are divorced or widowed and you want to enter into a relationship or marriage with another person.

 

Perhaps this is the time for you both to learn more about each other.  You may be young or old which does not matter.  What matters is how much you communicate and talk about your lives as children and beyond for your own happiness in the future.

 

Here are just a few things to talk about.

 

Did your parents love you? Were you an only child? Did you have brothers or sisters? (How many?) Were either of you a first-born or down the line?  Did you both like playing with other children?   Was either of you shy, timid, or frightful around other children?   Extraverted or Introverted?  What age did you start working?

Starting work at a young age may be a sign of ambition.  How were your grades in school?

 

Add to this list anything you both can use to be compatible for your future

Ow Ho

 

Infatuation may not provide a happy future, but compatibility might.

 

Do a lot of talking and compare the results with each other.  Communicate, communicate and communicate some more.

 

Go for it, you can do it.

 

Part 2 will cover your negative side so look for it.

 

 

http://www.outskirtspress.com/robertbruce   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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