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The Weight On Women Hearts
By Raymond Sturgis
Posted: Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Last edited: Wednesday, May 23, 2012
This short story is rated "PG" by the Author.

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New Book: ACT LIKE A LADY, DO NOT THINK LIKE A MAN....by Raymond Sturgis

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LOVE, CHAOS and SOCIETY

 

 

 

 

          Why is it, that the more we want love, we love one another less? Love is being on your deathbed, and seeing and smiling for the last time for the person you desire to be the recipient of your gesture. I have loved, and I have thought I was in love. I have had beautiful sex with women that made me feel like I was in love with them, only to discover that I welcome the company of other women. Many people feel that love is giving your life for your mate; sadly, this is dangerous, because people develop the wrong perception of love when they want to murder their mate if they show any signs of distrust. Love is beautiful but it hurts, and makes us vulnerable, and that vulnerability makes many people uncomfortable. Love is the only thing that makes women and men think alike. So when do love grow old? Love never grows old, only the false perception of what people believe how their lover should love them. Learning the wrong meaning of love is more destructive and harmful than hate. Because it is like trying to walk after a traumatic accident, the wrong way therapeutic measure results in results in falling down and developing a sense of failure.

 

Nevertheless, I read in the Bible that love is the greatest gift someone can give. In society, the misunderstanding of love leads to wrong interpretations, which continues to destroy relationships, formal communications and families. People love to have sex, but most of them cannot speak a word of why they love their sexual partner. I have said on many occasions during sexual intercourse that, “I love your body and how it moves”, and in reality I do; but what do I know about the women that is sharing my bed? When Adam and Eve were reproducing, where was their love? Is love an insincere feeling that we acquire when we are in need or lost? There are girls in elementary and high school having sex and trying to get pregnant because they want that love a baby has for its mother. They do not care who the father is; all they want is a baby so they can have something or someone to love. Therefore, what is the correct way to love? Many churchgoers cling to God when their hearts are absent of love from a significant person. For us to understand the parent and child ways of loving, let us first understand why God loved us so much, despite human being’s centuries of disobedience. The apostle John says, "We love Him because He first loved us.” The feelings our children have are incomparable to the love we have for God. The parent-and-child relationships of today, has developed into a test of wills with corrosive elements. A divided family will destroy itself. If you look on television or in your community, you can see the broken lives of people who do not love themselves; and as a result, their community suffers. Love is the most powerful force in the world; if a person does not have the capacity to love, the only other alternative is hate destruction. We also must change the way we love in relationships and marriages. I love my wife, and the home we built is peaceful and loud with ecstasy. How many of you can say the same? Lust is imaginary, but true love is everlasting. I hate the America judicial system and the State's Constitution that makes divorce accessible as a means for a lack of an agreement and negotiation. America must not let the sanctity of marriage die amid displeasure from advocates of gay marriage and atheists. There is always a spirit of some supreme being amid husbands and wives, just as with Adam and Eve. If husbands and wives change their Hollywood perception of marriage, divorce statistics would decrease. The Hollywood ideal of marriage is where someone in the marriage commits adultery harasses the other with child support, and then years later, reunite and drive one another crazy.  In any committed relationship, cheating hurts and the alternative to trust is to seek reciprocation. Relationships, marriages and civil unions should flow with love, and domestic violence should never be used to force someone to stay in a relationship or marriage.

Nevertheless, America’s idea of love has to change so people can feel good about being an American. In America, we still have racism and separation. By nature, I understand that people feel safe living amongst their own kind; however, the ground we walk on has historical bloodstains, shared by people of all races, all who sought freedom. And America does not consist of a single dream of freedom, but a conglomeration of ideas from people that believe in freedom and democracy. Our fight for freedom is endless, however, our next fight is with the scientist that is trying earnestly to convince us that God is dead, and that they can replace him. God, or the Supreme Being, is real and alive, because who else taught us how to love, and when to redefine love when we have lost our way. We can change the way we love as soon as we understand our mistake of misinterpreting it according to ‘OUR’ belief, instead of the way Jesus showed us how it worked. 

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Reviewed by Robin Carretti (Reader) 5/25/2012
Greetings I really enjoyed reading your article it touched nerves in my body that we all can realte too wheather its a first marriage or divine image we get from a second we feel the ooparts-out of place out of existence we cannot trace love and marriage is not always the baby carriage I also got a kick out of the Hollywood so true


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The Greatest Words of Love

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How Many Funerals Does It Take?

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Forever Men: Powerful Words by Why Martin L. King Jr. and Malcolm X

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What the Hell Is Wrong with You Black People?: Self-Destruction or Peace?

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Twelve Ways to Please and Keep Your Woman

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Letters from Concerned Americans: You Need to Listen to Us!

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Act Like A Lady, DO NOT Think Like A Man(REVISED EDITION)

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