THIS IS THE BOOK MEN DO NOT WANT WOMEN TO READ
Do you keep meeting the same kind of jerks? Want to know the traffic light system for deciding whether he’s worth your time?
Do you wish you could see right through him and his games? Want to know precisely when he’s lying or manipulating you?
Do you ever feel like the person you want almost never seems to want you, and the one you don’t want is a pest?
Want to know why it is actually your behaviour that determines that outcome?
Here is the book women have been waiting for - rarely will you come across another like it. JC Johnson’s gripping writing style intelligently transports you into his world. It takes you on a passenger seat ride through his life, as he reveals women’s blind spots, whilst suggesting unconventional approaches for all women to take. You will no doubt find yourself horrified, yet intensely fascinated by his antics at the same time, as he cleverly keeps you second-guessing what will happen next at crucial points. This book is an essential read. Its insightful perspective from a womanisers viewpoint makes this book a real page- turner. Prepare to be blown away.
‘Written in a unique style juxtaposing narrative with advice, JC Johnson navigates the reader through a roller coaster of events and emotions. Woman VS Womanizer expertly documents the mental metamorphosis of boy into man! - Maria Maxwell. BBC
‘‘POWERFUL, HILARIOUS, HEART-WRENCHING, ENLIGHTENING, SHOCKINGLY HONEST...A MUST-READ’ - Ms Dynamite
Read, laugh, weep - and learn
Woman Vs Womaniser
AUTHOR'S SPECIAL NOTE TO WOMEN
Over the years as a womaniser, I have learnt that Love is the most powerful force on earth. My personal definition of being in love is this: the other person puts you before themselves. Don't forget this and you will never be tricked by a person like me.
However, Love does not discriminate and will strike where it will. The only protection you can give yourself from falling in love with the wrong person is to control your emotions from the start. If you don't learn to control them, you will be riddled with 'blind spots'. What I mean by that is that our brains have two very real sides: the emotional and the rational. You have to use both sides of your brain if you are to see things accurately, as they really are, and if you are to make good decisions in life.
Whether it's a love situation, or more general day-to-day stuff, your life will turn out so much better if you can manage not to get overcome by your emotional side and retain good judgement (no matter what you're feeling).
When you meet a new man, you must first and foremost make him do your brain (The rational side - not the emotional side) first! Always pay attention to behaviour patterns; they are the biggest clues you'll ever get to knowing the person he really is. When you see patterns emerging that are not to your taste, cut your losses and move on. If you don't do it early and you get entangled in the love process, it will probably be too late and you'll be in for the worst rollercoaster ride of them all - The Misery Ride!
Here's my rule of thumb: you should never be in love with someone you don't know. Unfortunately there is no shortcut for getting to know someone: it just takes time. Jumping in at the deep end is nothing more than letting your emotions run away with you.
Instinct - I cannot put enough emphasis on how important it is. We all have it; it's just a matter of learning to listen to it and developing it. My experiences have taught me that most, if not all, the women I went with as a womaniser had a bad gut feeling about me at some point. What is the point of God, or the Universe, or whatever you choose to call it, giving you this amazing inner protection system if you don't use it?!
I've noticed that the more you follow your instinct, your gut reaction, the more accurate it becomes. Once you start using your instinct, you'll wonder how you ever lived without it. Here are a few examples of what your instinct will tell you about guys like me: this doesn't feel right; I really don't feel comfortable; he's a womaniser or player; he's using me; this is not what I really want; I don't like what I'm agreeing to or part of me doesn't; he has no respect for women; this feels the same as the last time; I'm making excuses for him; it just doesn't sound right; something's missing; my friends just don't understand; why am I always the one giving? Ignore these instinctive responses to a man at your peril!
My intention is to take you through the journey of my life and into the world and mind of a womaniser. I will reveal to you the abrasive manoeuvres and thoughts of a womaniser, giving a true account of his deceitfulness and the total pleasure he takes in using a woman to meet his own selfish needs.
It is almost impossible to cover every womanising experience, as each womaniser's encounters are legion, and each womaniser will have his own style. But it is possible for me to reveal the thought processes behind them, because they are broadly the same.
I'm sure that some women will be filled with disgust at the escapades I write about in this book; or they might find them hilarious! Or maybe both, even at the same time...? I'm also sure that the insights contained within these pages will make any woman who reads them impregnable to such characters. I hope that the benefits will by far outweigh the initial repulsion.
Some women make the same mistake over and over again; they fall for the same type of guy because they don't understand the psychology at play. Without knowing the mechanics, it leaves them with vulnerabilities, what I call 'blind spots'. It is by manipulating these blind spots to his advantage that the womaniser succeeds in turning every woman's world on its head!
The main aim of this book is to show you these very same blind spots and in that same process reveal to you 101 manipulative ways of a womaniser. To help you protect yourself and, at the same time, distinguish the womaniser from the genuine honest love partner that, at the end of the day, we all want to be with.
Enjoy the ride...