Cinderella ten years after is unhappily married doubting whether or not Prince Charming is her soulmate after all. To her surprise Fairy Godmother reappears and the two have a series of meetings where Cinderella learns many truths about herslef and her relationship. An entertaining story and a self-help book with lots of tips.
Women often create their own relationship problems with misguided expectations, a tendency to confuse romance with love, and dedication to finding their ¡§soul mate.
Many women get involved with men who sweep them off their feet and seem to be the answer to all their problems and get caught up in the rush of the ¡¥honeymoon¡¦ period.In their minds, the ¡¥nice guy¡¦ ends up morphing into the absolute soul mate; their very own Prince Charming. But by doing this women set themselves for a big fall, and virtually sabotage their chances of finding a healthy, happy relationship.
Some of the topics include:
„h How to avoid the pitfalls of going ¡¥head over heels¡¦ in love and still enjoy the relationship ¡¥honeymoon¡¦ period.
„h How women let their identity become shaped by a man, and end up losing their own self-esteem.
„h The difference between romantic love and long-term mature love ¡V and why every woman and man should know it.
„h Why Prince Charming really is just a fairy tale, and believing in a ¡¥soul mate¡¦ is problematic.
„h How unresolved conflicts from childhood dramatically affect they way we act in relationships, and what we can do about this.
„h The 3 biggest reasons relationships run into trouble ¡K and it¡¦s not money matters or cheating!
"Now we are ready to end the story of Cinderella and Prince Charming. Because life is unpredictable when two people co-create a relationship, the story has two possible endings. Most people want a happy ending --- one in which the partners stay together. But not staying together needn't automatically lead to an unhappy ending. The high divorce rate in Western society suggests that many couples would benefit by learning to end their relationships on a positive note before moving on to a better life. both conclusions - staying together and splitting apart - represent valid outcomes.