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Efficient Love - The Good-Man Methodology
The concept of Efficient Love is not the oxymoron it first appears.
Doesn't it make incredible sense to invest a few hours to FULLY define ALL of your wants, wishes and needs that would describe your ideal lover?
By efficiently identifying the general traits, characteristics, sexual issues and day-in day-out needs you find important, you can very quickly recognize if a prospective lover is a genuine long-term match BEFORE the chemistry takes over and leads you into yet another dead-end relationship and through another Cycle of the Nine Stages of Love.
Do you really want to watch the sun set on yet another day without sharing YOUR path of Happily Here & Now with someone who wants YOUR same Happily Ever After?
Doesn't it make more sense for you to find YOUR ideal Hero or Heroine as quickly and efficiently as possible? Wouldn't you rather share as many glorious days and nights of wonderful inefficiencies possible with your ideal lover, as quickly as possible?
Efficient Love will show you how. Efficiently!
My guess is that most of you have already had relationships galore. Good ones. Bad ones. Regrettable relationships. Forgettable relationships. Relationships that were life-changing. With all of them adding up to too many Cycles through too many of the Nine Stages. All of that experience has gotten you where you are right now.
Do you want to keep using the same methods you have used so far, or would you rather try a new approach? Maybe you’d like to try a new method that will let you benefit from all those dead-end trips down paths that led to neither Happily Here & Now nor Happily Ever After?
But remember: Ever After is the destination. Here & Now is the path you travel each day ON THE WAY TO Ever After. There really ARE so many possible Heroes (or Heroines) – and so little time. The problem: how to find the One – without taking all those wasted side trips that will never lead to YOUR Happily Ever After?
What Happily Ever After means to you is probably going to be significantly different from what it means to me and most everyone else. What is important to each of us can be very different and is almost surely unique in many ways.
People’s lives are both complicated and complex – with almost uncountable issues and considerations that make up and add to their own daily biographies. The Good-Man Methodology is designed to take two such people with two such lives and help them find each other when there is a close match between what they both want.
If your goal is reaching Happily Ever After down the path of daily Happily Here & Now, you need to start by defining exactly what it is you want for YOU. So, why not figure out a way to squeeze the ambiguity out of all your wants and wishes and needs – so you can make it clear to both yourself and to others what you, uniquely, want for YOU?
Even before the publication of Efficient Love, The Good-Man Methodology had already helped thousands of readers with their own Quest - successfully accelerating their search for the perfect-for-them Hero or Heroine who genuinely shares their same vision of Happily Ever After.
Efficient Love - The Good-Man Methodology is intended to efficiently help YOU succeed with your own unique version of that Quest.
You Are Empowered to Choose
I have been amazed at how often so many folks have never considered the fact that they, themselves, have the right and ability to choose what THEY really want in defining their own Happily Here & Now and deciding where their own destination of Happily Ever After lies – often seeming as if they are waiting for someone else to give them permission to want what they want.
Efficient Love - The Good-Man Methodology is intended to help you take charge of your own Quest, giving you power over your own Happily Here & Now and Happily Ever After in the ways that are most meaningful for you. Efficiently!
Don't Waste Another Sunset!
Efficient Love is a simple, unambiguous EFFICIENT guide designed to help you win your Quest for seeking and finding your Soulmate - and sharing Happily Here & Now with them until you reach Happily Ever After together:
* Discover the Nine Stages of Your Love Quest - and how to break the endless Cycle that is wasting so much of your time, energy and emotions on the wrong relationships.
* Find out if you are willing to do the Three Hard Parts necessary to reach Happily Ever After.
* Follow the simple step-by-step guide for defining the specific traits and characteristics; sexual needs, wants and wishes; and daily living issues that are uniquely important to YOU and the match for your perfect Hero or Heroine.
* Learn specifically how you can find YOUR ideal prospective Heroes or Heroines by the thousands.
* Discover how to identify and slay the Sneaky Dragons that do all they can to stop you and your Hero or Heroine from staying on your shared path of Happily Here & Now - the path that can lead to Happily Ever After.
Efficient Love is an easy-to-read, thought-provoking and often-humorous guide that will have you completely rethinking almost everything you thought you already knew - about both your own Quest for Love and the traits of your ideal Hero or Heroine!
“What has now developed into a fairly comprehensive approach for finding Happily Ever After, originally started as a way for a somewhat introverted, somewhat middle-aged, somewhat average-looking man to more efficiently find a somewhat compatible date," said Robert Goodman. "As I saw how much those pages and my approach were helping others, my own Quest became secondary to refining the concept into a methodology that would be universally beneficial to the 100 million singles in America.”