Natural, some common sense, 100% effective methods for avoiding unplanned pregnancy every time doctors will never tell you about.
It does not matter how old you are, when you are psychologically ready to have sex chances are you are going to regardless of what your parents, school, or any other person is telling you. However, do not be pressured by your friends to have sex if you do not want to or you are not ready for it. Do not let anybody influence your decision either way. Only you alone know when is the best time to start having sex. Listen to yourself. When you are ready, you will know it!
Believe me, there is plenty of time in life to experience the curious action people perform not only for reproduction purposes.
When you start to have sex, the most important thing to remember is to be responsible. Be responsible to both your partner and you. It is within your control to prevent unplanned pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease.
It is a common perception that life is too short. However, life offers plenty of opportunities to learn and experience all there is to be learned and experimented with concerning the pleasure of sex. Do not try to grab the first chance that comes along. Do not shorten your time for experimenting by acting without thinking about the consequences first.
Control your sexual urge until you have mastered…
What do I mean by that?
I am sure that both of you are “there” to have a good time.
I am sure that both of you would like to be treated with respect.
I am sure that neither one of you wants to contract a sexually transmitted disease.
I am sure that neither one of you wants to have children at this point of your life.
To be responsible means that both of you go to the date prepared, one-way or another (more about this in a few moments), and expect the best! If this is your first date, you already (should) know whether you want to have sex or not.
The first date is not always about sex. Spend some time with the person of your desires. Talk! Find common ground. You may realize that you are drawn to this person even more after a long conversation or you may find that you are no longer attracted to him/her.