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Snapshots In Memory of Ben
Snapshots In Memory of Ben is a compelling memoir of loss, love and life. A must read for all who are in need of a smile on the face of bereavement.
The second and revised edition of Snapshots In Memory of Ben which includes the new epilogue (that can be read in the "My Stories" section of my works) will be available tomorrow, Wednesday the 19th directly from the author Alan D. Busch.
To place an order, please contact Alan at alandbusch.aol.com. I will ship directly to you by USPS. Cost is $12.95 which includes shipping in the U.S. For international shipping, add $3.00. I accept checks and money orders. www.snapshotsinmemoryofben.com.
Snapshots is the heart-wrenching, intimate story of love and strength of a Jewish family whose oldest son has suddenly died. This is a devoted father's memoir, who although stricken with unimaginable grief, has written in the spirit of celebration of the life of his beautiful son, Benjamin. The author's words are honest and candid, as he shares family history and relays with impact, the untimely death of his beloved son. A 'straightforward-deep-from-the-heart-and-soul read.' For anyone who has lost, or is going through the loss of a loved one, you must read this book.
"Perhaps his soul is in the Olam Haba, the World to Come, floating as it were, like a feather caught up in the draft of God's exhalation-or in shamayim, heaven, awaiting the moment to ascend closer to God."
Title: SNAPSHOTS In Memory of Ben
Author: Alan Busch
Publisher: Water Forest Press
The unthinkable tragic death of one’s child is a topic most of us find difficult to embrace. It’s just too frightening to think about, let alone delve deeply into it, especially if we have not, thank G-d, experienced this ourselves.
However, in Alan Busch’s newly released heartening memoir SNAPSHOTS In Memory of Ben, he does just that. An observant Jew as well as an independent writer in Skokie, Illinois, Mr. Busch delves deeply into his story, powerfully so, in a way that mesmerizes the reader from the very first lines causing this honest and well-written book to become hard to put down.
Busch bravely allows readers into this sacred world by sharing his reality in the aftermath of the tragic death of his 22-year-old son Ben, a”h.
A bike courier in downtown Chicago, Ben was fatally struck by a truck making an illegal turn into an alley, changing the lives of the Busch family forever. While Mr. Busch’s story does not fully follow a clear linear time-line path, his approach works seamlessly and brilliantly.
As the title explains, he offers his readers a journey into his unique collage of profound and touching memories he has of his son. Each chapter serves as a brief snapshot of their lives together – each one a diamond to cherish showing what an incredible soul his son was. The stories are woven together to paint an extraordinary picture of lives shared. Some are painful to read, others are deliciously endearing and charmingly sprinkled with relatable life-humor – and all are showcased with the infusion of faith in G-d.
To say the reader will laugh and cry is not a cliché – it is as real as this father coping with real loss in his own unique and personal way. The book offers us an intimate look in the window of that experience.
Before reading this book, I was hesitant to journey down the very difficult and frightening road of deep loss, perhaps because I felt this book sounded more appropriate for bereaved parents, much like the author. However, after reading it in one sitting simply because it was so mesmerizing that I could not put it down, I came away with the feeling of being enriched and honored.
I may not have known the author’s cherished son during his lifetime, but the book superbly introduced me to who he was, and for that I will forever feel fortunate to have gotten to know him.
The author said it best when he wrote, “As a Jew, my faith teaches me life is inherently miraculous and, therefore, holy. We serve as guardians of its sanctity. This belief sustains me when all that remains are a dress shirt and suit, a pair of old boots, a bicycle in need of repair and the discovery of his boyish signature while turning the page of a scrapbook. Though their bodies are gone, their physicality ended, we remain attached to our loved ones through remembrance, dedication and rededication, all of which remind us how fortunate we were to have enjoyed them for as long as we did.”
For anyone who has suffered a loss, especially the loss of a child, this book will certainly serve as a comfort to know that you are not alone and that the author shares and expresses the words for what you most certainly feel deeply in your hearts.
And for everyone else, this book is a must read for many reasons, but most assuredly, to share this very honest real-life experience and to know that out of tragedy does come a semblance of healing – one that Alan Busch has bravely and poignantly chosen to share with the world.
To find out more about SNAPSHOTS In Memory of Ben or to order a copy, go to http://www.snapshotsinmemoryofben.com/index.htm
graceful, raw, full of feeling and restraint
At first I was too frightened to read this book -- a true story of every parent's worst nightmare -- the death of his child. But somehow the author brings me in, with a kind of tenderness, truthfulness, parent's humbleness and a graceful way of writing about religious questions without weighing the story down in any way. His spiritual approach is so fresh-hearted that I can't help being lifted -- at least while I'm reading this -- to his poetic and poignant way of experiencing the world.
Ruchama King Feuerman, author of Seven Blessings
A Father's Tribute to His Son
Many books have been written about a mother's loss of a child. Alan Busch offers a reflection of heartache told by a loving father. Though "Snapshots in memory of Ben," he relates his love, pride and respect for his "bechor," first-born child. Alan writes,"We set him apart . . . not because we love him more--but only that his childhood begins when ours ends." Snapshots," while heartwrenching, is so exquisitely written that it takes one's beath away at times. As a mother who also lost a child, Alan's perspective on his feelings have helped me better understand my own husband's grief. This narrative of lost love flows from deep within the writer's soul, which speaks so much more elequently than the mind. Expect to feel sadness, but you will receive so much more from this remarkable tribute from a father to his "bechor," Ben.
by Micki Peluso, author of . . .AND THE WHIPPOOORWILL SANG
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Reader Reviews for "Snapshots In Memory of Ben"
|Reviewed by Kathleen Evans
|A well written, heart wrenching story and loving dedication to your young son. His memory is alive because of your beautiful writing Alan.|