||February 1, 2008
Barnes & Noble.com
Did you ever wish you had a set of instructions on how to interact with your boyfriend/fiancé/husband without causing one or both of you to have a meltdown or be sucked into a swirling vortex of confusion and misunderstanding? Well, if you answered “yes,” you’re in luck. Every Man Sees You Naked is an exposé which addresses these issues as well as a host of other mysteries surrounding the male of the species.
Employing equal measures of wit and wisdom, Emmy Award-winning composer/writer/producer (The Young And The Restless, The Nanny, Half & Half), David M. Matthews, leads you on an amusing yet highly informative journey through the seamy underbelly of the male mind. Shameless in its honesty and lacking any pretext of political correctness, “Every Man Sees You Naked” explodes the myths about men and answers the questions you’ve been dying to ask…but didn’t quite know how.
Among other things, this book will reveal:
• The disconcerting truth about why guys ask you out
• The surprising things men like and what they really hate
• What men truly look for in a woman
• What guys secretly want in bed
• How to understand what a man is actually saying
• What motivates guys to behave in the odd way they do
• The “dirty little secrets” the men in your life are keeping
• Who “man’s best friend” really is (and no, it’s not you, the dog or the TV remote)
• Why almost everything you believe to be true about men…isn’t
Finally the truth is just a few page turns away. So, why are you still wasting time reading the back cover?
"Men are motivated primarily by two things -- money and sex. What about spiritual belief? It's true that many men do hold it in high esteem -- as long as it doesn't interfere with money or sex. Are there men who are exceptions to this rule? Sure. But unless you regularly dine in the Vatican commissary, chances are you won't spend much quality time with many of them."
© 2008 David M. Matthews. All Rights Reserved.
Laugh & Learn
Reviewed by Paige Lovitt for Reader Views
As soon as I got my hands on “Every Man Sees You Naked” my world stopped. I put everything
down to focus on this book. It was definitely well worth my time. David M. Matthews really tells it
like it is. He takes us into the minds of men. I learned a lot. Rather than saying that men’s minds
are simpler, I will be nice and say that they are less complex than I thought. Matthews says that he
got the idea for this book from the many conversations that he has had with women. He writes with
humor, which helps soften the blow of his brutal honesty. I was very impressed with his ability to
understand the minds of women. The way that he explains how men’s minds work as compared to
women’s showed me that he has a good understanding of how we think.
Even if I was in the perfect relationship (relationship, what relationship?), I would still love reading this book to gain more insight into my partner. The humor that Matthews infuses into his writing
also makes it a very fun book to read. He doesn’t hold back with his words, so the reader should be
prepared for some graphic details. In addition to gaining insight into how a man thinks or doesn’t
think, he also offers some great advice on techniques for spicing up the relationship. This is
definitely excellent reading material for someone who wants to make positive changes in her
Matthews answered some rhetorical questions that I had in my mind in regards to issues in previous
relationships. One was, “Why would a man want to be intimate with me, if he doesn’t treat me with
respect?” Well, I learned, in a man’s mind, respect doesn’t play into sex issues. They don’t need to
have respect for a woman to have fun with her. I also gained some insight into men and women just
being friends. In my own life, I have noticed that there are guys that say that they are okay with just
being friends, but then they get all bent out of shape when I start a relationship with someone other
then them, or if the friendship doesn’t extend into the friends-with-privileges level. Matthews taught
me that guys really don’t want to just be friends with women. They always want more. I will
definitely keep this in mind for future friends!
“Every Man Sees You Naked,” is a must read for all women. It should be required reading in high
school. Actually not high school, because then the moral majority would have to hold book
burnings, but definitely for college. Every woman needs to read this book. If she can read it before
she gets into her first relationship, she will have a much easier time. But it’s never too late, at least
not for a divorced, almost-middle-aged woman like myself. Mr. Matthews please keep writing.
Spotlight Book Review
Reviewed by Cherrell Ward for NewBookReviews.org
Every Man Sees You Naked had me in stitches many times. Matthews points out some interesting views about what makes men happy.
From a woman's perspective, I found it hard to believe that men were that simple. However, when I asked my husband if men were that basic, he said "Yes, that's right." So, girls - read the book, learn about the three "F's" see how to understand your man, in a whole new light. By getting down to the basic priorities that seem to drive all men. I came away from Every Man Sees You Naked with a totally new perspective. Can it really be this simple? Apparently it can!
Entertaining, very funny and informative, what more could you ask for!
A Satirical Dating Handbook Taking The View That Men Are Sex Crazed Pigs
Reviewed for Midwest Book Review
What they say is never what they mean - "Every Man Sees You Naked" is a satirical dating handbook taking the view that men are sex crazed pigs and placing it obviously without any regard to subtlety and political correctness. Although satirical, the truth sits alongside it to a degree, mixing the humor and advice aspect throughout, leaving no topic of common relationship problems and how a little bluntness can solve them uncovered. "Every Man Sees You Naked" could do well to find itself on either dating or humor shelves alike, and is highly recommended to fans of both.
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Reader Reviews for "Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think"
|Reviewed by Amber Moonstone
|David, If your book is as good as your excerpt, then every woman should have it as a hand book for living. I have been trying to date after being married for 32 years, and it totally baffles me as to what the heck is going on out there.
I will definitely buy this book. Welcome to the den, hope you enjoy other offerings here.
Peace, love, and light,
Amber "V" Moonstone
|Reviewed by Sophia Simmons
|Well David looks like some interesting stuff u have here...I am sure I will be purchasing...Perhaps you can take time to read my book excerpt here soon to be published...Thank you for your write....Sophia|
|Reviewed by Debra Bateman
Welcome to Authorsden.
-Debra : )
|Reviewed by Gwendolyn Thomas Gath
|Your book sounds quite interesting along with your great reviews. Welcome to the den David hope you enjoy your stay.