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Deep within, you have a gut feeling that your companion is being unfaithful but, you just haven't reveal it yet with your very own eyes.
Across the nation, right at this very moment, someone's involved in a relationship/marriage, where as though their partner is being unfaithful. These deceitful acts can occur in various places; at hotels, in a vehicle, within the work place and on some occasions, right within your very home. You have a gut feeling that your companion is sexually involved with someone else outside of the marriage/relationship, but, you haven't exposed it yet.
Within this book, you'll be provided with Exclusive Information that'll assist you with being able to 'Crack The Cheater's Code'. The Red Flag signs to look for are being revealed, Real-Life actual events are being shared, In Depth Details are provided about different STDs/STIs thecheating spouse may be transmitting if protection isn't being used and, the Daunting Affect all of these dreadful circumstances has on the child/children that are involved is being told.
You'll also get a better understanding of the 5 stages of emotions you'll experience after the relationship/marriage has ended, combined with a 6 stage process that'll assist you with getting your life back on track and moving on with your life after going through these heart-wrenching events.
Combine your life experiences with the knowledge provided in this book, enabling yourself to become wiser on relationship choices, eliminating any unnecessary drama that really isn't needed.
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~ Playing The Game- As The Dealer & As The Receiver ~
From a personal standpoint, a male’s point of view, the desolation concept of cheating, eventually concludes in chaos for all parties involved. Summarizing this concept all up for you, in this case, I’ll paint a picture in your minds of a card game being played under the bright, exciting city lights of sin city, Las Vegas, Nevada. Picture in your minds sitting at a colorful card game table, the stakes are detrimentally high, the loud sounds around you of ringing slot machines, overly excited jackpot winners screaming at the top of their lungs and loose change jiggling back and forth in a nervous person’s hand, hoping that the last few tokens they’re sliding into the slot machines, will somehow triple its value for them, is distracting your concentration way beyond belief.
The ‘DEALER’ is synonymous to the cheating person in the relationship. He takes pride in dishing out all types of hands and tricky situations because, in all actuality at this point, he stands nothing to lose. In the midst of dealing several hands out to you, he gets to sit back and observe the multiple amounts of expressions written on your faces, as you’re attempting to adapt and adjust yourself to the cards you’ve been dealt. Most times, you’re fully aware that you’re in a ‘no win’ situation; the cards you’ve been dealt has no possibilities of making you come out on the winning end. This entire card game is designed with the intentions of benefitting the house, the place the game is being played, in any and every way imaginable.
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The same applies to a relationship when you’re being cheated on. The ‘Dealer’, the person that’s cheating on you, is taking a huge risk by doing so, but, he/she is enjoying every bit of taking this uncalled for risk to the point that, it continues on for as long as they see that they’re actually getting away with it. They are fully aware of your ways by now, your daily routine, likes and dislikes, so, they know exactly what buttons to push and the exact time to push them, toying with you as if you’re a robot being controlled by the mash of a button.
Truth be told, even after finding out what’s being done to them, some people still choose to remain in the relationship/marriage, feeling as though they can’t do any better and/or, using the kids as an excuse for them to remain with someone whose love has obviously taken its course with them. When things have escalated to the heights of this level, the ‘Dealer’, is in a ‘win-win’ situation at this point. To use an old cliché, he/she gets to have their cake and eat it too when; they’ve made their partner in the relationship/marriage fully aware that, they’re seeing other people outside of them, but, the person being told this in the relationship/marriage, decides to remain in it anyway.
The ones who decide to tolerate this behavior, in some point in their lives, have experienced a low self-esteem complex, sometimes stemming from something that occurred within their childhood, or, criticism from a family member, abused in a relationship, etc. Everyone wants to be loved, accepted and appreciated but, when this isn’t being received, some settle for whatever is being presented to them that at least comes slightly close to what they’re seeking in a companion.