Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned. If God wanted single parent families, he would not have created men.
Philip Moffat Dennis
"Two Heathens, ignorant Pilgrims Doing the Lord's Work"
This title is the third and final tier of a trilogy. Volumn one is titled "Deadbeat Dad, Ignorant Pilgrims Versus Cinderella." is in rewrite and will be published this summer of 2012. The first published is volumn two, "In the Name of th e Father, Ignorant Pilgrim's Fight the Legal Kidnappingof a Son". There are good reasos for this order of presentation.
Frequently it is said that ours is a nation of law. Laws. A high sounding nostrum. Any semantical test would require a restatement. Ours is a national of legal vindettas aimed at the 50% or more Americans who have access to a mere 2.5% of the American Pie. In other words, the poor. The Law is punitive. Period. Nothing rehabilitaitve, correctional, theraputic--nothing positive whatsoever is going on here. No effort to bind up the wounds of our desperate who are imprisoned, jailed. Nothing to make them whole, viable, citizens, husbands, FATHERS. There are more men incarcerated in these United States per capita than anywhere else in the world. The vast magority of them are of color, black brown, red and yellow. Virtually all qualify as poor men. 97% of contested custody in the United States are awarded the mother. It is virtually automatic, a knee jerk, Babinski. Performed by lawyers in courtrooms as part of a judical system run by syncophants all having a same bar code. The institution of marriage in America has for some several generations been in serious shape, decline. The divorce rate is a burgeoning, 50-60%. What becomes of our children of divorce.? They are handed to , ripped from, amputed and given to their mothers and into a contaminated culture of confused roles and relationships. They are thus destined to grow to adulthood sans their Dads. Dad becomes the weekend weakend clowns. Daddybucks. He has no real function, role, authority save as revenue provider.The overseers of this pathological process are huge heinous institutions of social workers, the facsists of the post WWII age. These kids are our future. God help them. Us. My three books chronicle the emotions and the true story of one such family who fought the good fight , The modern struggle pitting the individual versus his society..A damn good read I might say writ with honesty and honor .
"Ninety seven percent of the time, lawyers tragically turn these our most vulnerable over to the mother. Healthy or not, capable of parenting or not. Given that lawyers do these transactions, perform this disservice to mankind without benefit of training or knowledge of human dynamics, we are skating, we have been skating on mighty thin to rotten ice. Without insight into human behavior, the honorable thing for lawyers and judges to do is to recuse themselves from performing child custody cases all together. They are contributing to a growing disaster. We've two recent Presidents with problems and grievous shortcomings associated with being raised fatherless ..."