Do you know statistically 48% of women in the western world been in physical or emotional abusive relationship, despite only a small majority of man dated most women?   According to various experits this is cause by an obsession with fairy tale romance and something expert refer to as Response Shaping Prcess and another thing many experts refer to as fix believe.  Fairy tale is not something there to reflect reality, it is there to reinforce traditional value, written in traditional era and past down to the people today.  It reinforce a main idea "true love and true happiness for a women = fairy tale romance." & "True success for a woman is to be in a hetrosexual relationship, all else are irrelevant."  Fairy tale traditional reinforce such ideal through term such as "the princess and the prince live happily ever after." to reinforce the idea, but never justified why.  If the prince and princess are e.g. best friends and lovers, it might explain happiness, but if e.g the prince is a wife beater, then how is that happiness?  In other word, Fairy tale present a message of persuading people to an opinion, without giving an explanation why.   In addition, fairy tale are frequently been presented to smalle Children, which is something expert refer to as Response Shaping Prcess.  Response Shaping Process is a situation where you persuade a person to a particular point of view, while they have little or no understanding towards anything, its effectiveness is within the fact, when people have little understanding towards anything they don't have the necessary fact to contradict what they are been persuaded to believe in.  Response Shaping Prcess is most effective amount children, because they have little undrestanding towards anything.  The best example in hisotry would have been the Hitler Youth of Nazi Germany.  Considering Fairy tale are frequently been told to children, it is like, the children are been bombarded by pro such traditional value ideology, constantly, since a young age.  As a result, many girls grow up, believing that, true love, true success and true happiness for a woman, is fairy tale romance and be in a hetrosexual relationship.   For some girls, such believe become an obsession and believing it is true love and happiness became an obsession also.  This is something psychologist refer to as "Fix believe" which is, when a person believe in something badly enought they would look for example and construct opinion to sustain their believe and ignore everything else that suggest otherwise.  When so many girls have fix believe, for a woman, fairy tale romance = true love and happiness and hetrosexual relationship = true seucess, it mean many of them would be obsess with it, they would go out of their way for it.  Many woman whom are in abusive relationship with such fairy tale romance charactristic, would look for examples and construct opinion, in favor of the idea such relationship is true love and happiness.  Some women, would believe "having an abusive man is better then having none man." and construct all form of opinions to justified such believe, when they are in an abusive relationship and think they can't do better.   As a resut, many women, whom might have troubdle finding a man, might choose to be with an abusive man, just to have aq man. In addition, while some girls might have a thing of dating bad boys, feeling dating a man of such character can be exciting (and some might be stupid enough to acutally date a bad boy.) the fact is that (1) If he is a bad boy, it is most likely he would be abusive and (2) Bad boys are more likely to be charming and willing to provide fairy tale romance to women.  As a result, help to create a culture where women get in and choose to stay in abusive relationship.   My novel, help to address this problem and help inform women via fiction, true love and true happiness doesn't equal fairy tale romance.  And hetrosexual relationship don't necessary mean success for a woman (It would help enoucrage the continue of human species, but don't necessary mean sucess for a woman.) and that it is alright to be single.   It would be a great book, to give to your daughters, your sisters or your female friends.