My name is Donnatella aka Contessah (old stage name). I have survived most extreme addictions, abuse, pleasures, pain, fear, panic, relief, excitement, and ascension. I was an extremely talented flute player and conga drummer for 45 years, 15 of it were on large stages and 6 with John Lee Hooker (blues flute...yes) years ago. I played at countless parties, about 50 spir more...