I grow up in a disfunctional atomphere. The reason I say atomphere, because  even tho my family is disfunctional. I can't blame them for my adult life. 

My dad left my mom when I was born. he got remarried, had 6 kids. my mom got remarried, had 8 kids a total of 14 half brother and sisters.  we moved around alot due to the men in my mom's life.  I grew up with alot of  negative people coming and going rapists, robbers, etc.