Marriage is not that you won't get angry or upset. It means standing firm for your partner even while being upset. It means not leaving your partner even when things are tough.
It simply is not talking back at your spouse in the heat of his or her anger. Marriage is gazing into the angry eyes or teary eyes of your spouse and still see love.
Marriage is "no-invitation" to third party to come amongst you. Marriage is a divine partnership, an eternal friendship, a trust worthy venture; simply put, it is a love-bond!
This is a union that requires good understanding of each other; the divine knowledge from the Inventor and Originator of marriage delivers special favours and flavour to the union.
It is an eternal institution that has only one access - entrance only, no exit. It takes two mad people to fight and marriage is made up of two sane people who love each other dearly so there is no space for fighting in marriage.
Divine favour and flavour accompanies the couple in marriage but the day one of them begins to manhandle and rough-handle the other, the favour and flavour will evaporate.
Partners in marriage should be and see each other as great values and none should try to devalue the other.
Marriage should be a divine covering for the people involved no wonder it is the only institution used by God to describe Christ's relationship with the church.
Marriage is a legal contract where interpersonal relationship, intimacy and sexual activities are acknowledged and considered lawful.
In many settings, marriage is legalized by a wedding ceremony; marriage delivers boldness, thoughtfulness, stability, intelligence, co-operation and friendship.
Your spouse must be your best-friend and confidante before your marriage will work out successfully.
Truly, marriage is a relationship, a union of importance and strong attachment. It is friendship of great value and it is for matured minds not overgrown babies.
In conclusion, marriage is a completeness of each other hence the word "better-half" used to refer to one's spouse. Marriage is good, beautiful and honourable. Make a decision to enjoy yours; it is your birthright and your responsibility!
You made up your mind in marriage to abandon all other choices and settle for one another so apply the principle of leaving and cleaving.
Remember one only enjoys what he or she prepares well for and marriage is meant to be enjoyed not to be endured.
When you absorb the principle of leaving and cleaving, every friction will end and your home will be filled, with laughter, peace and more love!
Copyright, Agu Jaachynma
