Last week I got a flyer for a club in Baltimore that said, “Looking for the sexiest man and woman in B-more! Grand prize: an all expense paid trip to Bermuda.” Just for being sexy? S-o, after I got back from Bermuda… sike! But, the flyer did make me wonder what people in general think that sexy is? Can people become sexy as you learn more about them? What’s your favorite feature on a person; is it eyes, lips, hips, legs, butt, or a combination? After you finish reading this article I want you to write a comment about what you think sexy is?

We don’t have to look far to find out what our own definition of sexy is… just look at pictures of yourself. When we dress up to go out to a club, party, or event we’re giving our definition of sexy. That’s why you see so many men and women out here looking crazy with colored hair in weird styles, tight clothes, ass out, tits out, net shirts, fake hair… we really go overboard sometimes! Oh, and before anyone says anything; there is nothing wrong with fake hair but just don’t overdue it. I’ve seen women that look like they just crossed the Delaware with George Washington!

Let me be the first to say that my idea of sexy is simplicity with an attitude. Anybody can be sexy and I’ve been attracted to all types of women. They had nothing in common visually but they all had appeal of simplicity combined with the attitude of I’m so much more than you see. Woo, I can’t take it! Sexy is, as sexy does... and I mean that. The Feenix will rise for you if you’re comfortable with yourself. Ladies, don’t let other ladies be your motivation because it becomes a competition and you whined up over doing it. Are you trying to attract men or other women? I’ll leave it right there; but share your comments on this one. A million plus Examiner readers wants to know your idea of sexy! -DF/x