Whether we are a seasoned manifester
or a novice, one element that is
crucial to success in manifesting is
in our Asking.

How2Ask: The Skill of Asking
(by Susan James)

Whether we are a seasoned manifester or a novice, one element that is
crucial to success in manifesting is in our Asking.

As also in stated in the Bible and other religious texts.....we must
pray aright. And do not pray amiss.

That means our prayers are always answered. But we must really ask
for what we want in the clearest way, or we will get less than what we
want, or miss it all together if it shows up in some form. Praying
aright is a skill.

Here's a recent example from my life; and it's one of those 'My
Sister' stories. I haven't told one of these in awhile, and this is a
goody!

I had been listening to my sister go on and on for several months
about an event that she did not want to participate in. And each time,
she communicated with volume, all the reasons she did not want to
participate in this event.

I have refrained from giving my usual Kitchen Seminars and only
listened  in the kitchen as well as over the phone. I did other things in
silence to assist her.

For those of you new to this type of information, she was saying
things like: 'I am not going! I do not want to go!' All of these wrong
things about this event!* But still she knew unless something
happened to change events, she would be going due to the should's
and obligation factors.

Many of us know that God/Consciousness is all inclusive. And it
does not matter that we say no. It hears yes. And God being a
benevolent god gives us more of that thing.

Therefore, the more my sister said NO......then the more the chances
were that she was going. It didnt matter what she thought she was
saying and how she had been *praying* about this up to this point.
We MUST develop an understanding of how God/Consciousness
hears and communicates with us.

The time is near of the event. Finally last week, I could no longer hold
back from the Kitchen Seminar.

I said: STOP. STOP NOW.

She looked at me.
I said: I've told you a 100 times..........about this.......Look at what you
are doing.........! and then I explained it for the 101th time.

I went on to say: What you really want, is to be able to stay home that
week. That's your end result intention. Your intention is NOT....
.......Not to go. Your intention is to be able to stay at home that week,
THAT'S what you really want.

Right? And of course........she said: Right.

I then said it outloud for her: *I will get to stay home the week of such
and such in ease, peace and joy*. I then used it in a prayer form using
my own spoken word, and I called on God, the cherubs, and the
angels. I prayed in a way that she would accept.  (I snuck the
Ascended Masters in....when she wasn't looking!)

I then went over to the dog........and told him she would get to be at
home with him that week. I then went over to the cat and told her.

And then my sister said it outloud. And a couple times in the evening
when she started to bring it up, she changed how she said it. Emails
that I have gotten from her since, have been in the REAL end result
form she wants. Her whole being changed when she started saying it
outloud in the form she wanted.

Previously she had worried herself sick over this thing, she didn't
want to do. She's not willing to just say no to this and move on. If she
did, she would carry guilt around about it, and really wouldn't have
expanded over it, and would then be given some other event to visit
with again.

And that's what many of us are doing to ourselves. We think we are
asking for what we want, when we are miles from it!

I'm an expert at this. I know I am. And because I am, I get what I
want. How did I become an expert?

I wrote out what I wanted. And then I'd ask myself questions about
each word that I wrote, and each phrase. Questions like: Is this that
I've written what I really want? Is that what the end result looks like,
this thing that I want? Why do I want this? And is this the way I
want it to look?

The clinker is, not everyone who has desires and dreams they want to
manifest is willing to sit in a chair and write about their own desires
until they are clear. And then use those statements as their  Sword of
Three's, or Sword in The Stone Statements, or whatever game you
need to play for yourself.

Funny.....we'll make our grocery lists and our agenda lists very clear,
and they will get done. But we wont take the same amount of time and
write about our dreams coming true in the clearest way.

Those that do........will..............have their dreams come true .

Susan James http://www.susanjames.org     (Copyright 2004)

Author/Consultant Susan James writes of User Friendly Physics
and The Immaculate Physics Applications to our lives. From
Millionaires to Weight Loss, Susan writes from personal
application of Maverick Momentum methods. For information on
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