My computer crashed this week leaving me with nearly a dozen unfilled book orders and plenty of frustration.

In light of what I've been dealing with this week, the best tip I can offer is to be prepared for the unexpected. Things happen and while you can't be 100 percent totally prepared, you should always have some type of back up plan.

I am no techie and since my husband is out of town until Friday, I was totally lost when my computer crashed on Monday. I had book orders to fill and follow-up letters to send out for my upcoming media teleclass. I also had a seminar which was supposed to be held on Tuesday but was unable to contact anyone.

I think of all the would'ves, should'ves could'ves, but since I didn't do what I should've done, I had to re-direct my frustration.

So here are my tips on how to prepare when your computer world comes crashing down upon you::

1) Back-up your important files somewhere (on a CD or wherever) so you don't lose your important data. Replacing what you worked hard to build will be a nightmare otherwise.

2) Re-channel your frustrations. I was releasing negative energy and receiving it in return. Once I let that negativity go, my life seemed to fall back into a sense of order.

3) Find things you can do that don't require internet service. This has been a great opportunity for me to work on my podcasts, which had gotten a little backed up. I've also been working on my new book, of which a chapter will be dedicated to the Frustrations of a Baby Boomer Diva.

4) Meditation. This is an ideal time to meditate and listen to your inner spirit. I believe when things like this happen, it is for a reason and God is trying to get your attention and focus back on Him so you can be renewed and rejuvenated.

5) GET OVER IT! It happened. It's a lesson learned and you move on.

Once you're up and running again, re-establish contact with customers and explain the situation. I'm still in the process of doing that. I've probably lost a few contacts but the people who have come to know and trust me will understand and be supportive of my situation.